How do you like to get oral from your woman?

Can someone tell me what men like most?

What is the best way to encounter this and then play it out?

I want to really make him go crazy! thanks...

 

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thanks! I always have a hard time initiating stuff.

 

when we least expect it is what gets us going the most, being a man and often finding I need to initiate stuff I often get bored with it because it goes in like a pattern, so when you kind of do it out of the blue they get alittle more arroused, I personally like it when the lady mixes it up alittle like giving oral as well as stroking it at the same time right before climax now thats great stuff. try that out. Another fun thing to do would be get an ice cube in your mouth and give him oral that way or a pepermint mouth strip and give oral ( mouth strips work great for male and female)

 

Personally, I find it depends on whether he's cut or uncut. I give different oral to each type... Either way, I love to lock eyes with him, give a little, sly smile and head south without saying a word. Just unzip his pants and he'll be so surprised and pleased, he'll stand at attention in no time. Don't spend all your time just sukcing... Licking and teasing, soft then harder strokes with your hands, a little ball-lovin', change it up and he'll go nuts. Oh and that little spot where his head meets his shaft, lick that just right and he'll be seeing stars.

 

save it for March 20th the new National Holiday (Mens Valentines Day) Steak and Blow Job Day!!! Cook him up a nice steak, as or after he's eating give him alittle oral pleasure, its unexpected so he would love it. Come on ladies spread the word about this new national holiday!

 

She knows what she's talking about!!!!

 

Here are my tips:

(NB: these are all things I like, but obviously not every man is the same)

1. Be patient
First of all, don't be in a big rush to get the cock out of our pants (if we're wearing any). We like to have our bulge played with a bit. You can stroke it with your hands or your face, and if our pants are soft enough you can maybe even get your lips round it!

2. Slow-mo
When you first put the cock in your mouth, or when you're taking it out, move your lips really slowly over the head of the cock. We love to savour the sight and the sensation of the head of our cock going between your lips, so the slower you do it, the more enjoyment we can derive from it. I can't stress this enough: you can't move your mouth too slowly down a cock. Slower is definitely sexier. (Just don't be slow all the time!)

3. Look
Most men love eye contact during a blowjob. We also love women to talk to us while we're getting our cock sucked. A woman talking and looking into your eyes is a normal everyday event, which suddenly becomes very sexy and exciting when you stick a cock in the middle of it. Try and talk to the guy in a perfectly normal manner with the cock almost in your mouth, licking it between words. This drives me crazy!

4. Avoid glancing
Although eye contact is good, try to avoid very quickly glancing up. It just looks a little sly and uncomfortable and seems like you're not enjoying it too much. Try to look as if you're enjoying it or the guy won't feel comfortable.

5. Don't suck
Don't actually suck or blow — "sucking" and "blowing" cocks are just figures of speech. Just fuck him with your mouth; no need to play him like a bagpipe.

6. Tease
Men like to be teased, too. Don't just suck cock. Lick it all over (down to the balls). Kiss it. Move your tongue all over it slowly. I often think the more time women spend with the cock not in their mouth, the better the blowjob is! Just putting your lips near to it, breathing on it, or caressing it lightly with your lips, is a massive turn on.

7. Brush
Dunno about other guys, but I love to feel hair on me when I'm having a blowjob. Try your best to get your hair to brush the guy's stomach, or if you can get it to, to touch his cock. We love hair. (Okay, maybe just me?)

8. Keep it real
Please DO NOT fake an orgasm from sucking a guy's cock. It's just weird! Why would a woman moan from sucking a cock? If your enjoyment seems phoney, the guy won't enjoy it. (By the way, talking dirty doesn't count as phoney — that's coaching and all guys appreciate that!)

9. Squelch
Don't be embarassed to make "squelchy sloppy" noises. The noisier, the better. If it's too quiet down there, it's a little weird.

10. Etiquette
It's amazing what a difference it makes the way a girl holds a cock when she's sucking it. If she holds it firmly in her fist, I find it a little off putting. If she holds it delicately with her fingers, nearer the tips, like a glass of wine, then it's very sexy and feminine. (Unless you're being dominant and nasty — then use the full fist.)

11. Slop
Drool and spit more! Personally, I don't think you can have too much spit on a cock. If you can do it, try and get a spit trail to go from the tip of your tongue to the head of the cock. We love to see that. Not every guy does, but I personally love having my cock spat on. Messier=nastier, which is a good thing to most men.

12. Squeeze
Whether you're wearing clothes or not, putting a cock between your tits and squeezing them together is very sexy.

13. Facialize
Don't make it all about the mouth. When a guy gets a blowjob, he doesn't just want to fuck your mouth, he wants to fuck your face. Women's faces turn us on. If you can sometimes brush his cock with other parts of your face, that makes for an ideal blowjob.

14. Gnash
Occasionally, it can be very sexy for a girl to look fierce and 'bite' the end of our cock between your teeth. Just make sure you make it look deliberate, and we want to see lots of teeth.

15. Explore
If you can, lick under the balls and round the sides of them. We love that.

16. Coach
If he's close to orgasm, you can really help by telling him how much you want his cum. Tell him you want it on your face and you want to swallow it. Yeah, we know it's phoney, but we love to hear the words! (Can you back me up on this, guys?) And to be honest by the time we actually cum, we usually don't even care what you do with the cum. A post-orgasm man loses all his nastiness. For me, talking about cum-swallowing and face-splatting is all just talk.

17. Open wide
Another thing guys love when we're close to orgasm is the sight of a nice wide open mouth (especially when we're looking down on you). It's all to do with our fantasy of cumming in your mouth I guess. We like to think you'll catch it, and a wide mouth shows us you're hungry for our cum and don't care how you look (which is totally sexy). As I say, this is really all about fantasy, because once we cum we don't care!

Yeah... you thought girls were complicated!

Again, I must stress that this is just stuff I like, and some of it may not apply to every man, so maybe check with your boyfriend?

 

Thanks, Dizzy Man, for that very indepth explanation. I love getting tips! My only beef is number 8. I love giving head. I adore sucking cock. It turns me on, very, very much. Sometimes I get so excited, I touch myself while sucking. I moan when I give BJs because I am thoroughly enjoying myself. Does that turn guys off?

 

Donna,

Sorry I should clarify about the moaning...

A woman who is genuinely enjoying herself is not a turn off. Quite the opposite! It's only a turn off if she's making fake "orgasm" noises from just sucking a cock. I mean, when it's obviously fake. I'm not talking about natural moaning sounds that come out naturally, but, like, the big loud "I am having an orgasm right now" noises. If you're touching yourself while you suck then I guess any noises are justified.

Are any of those redheads you?

 

Yep, the bottom right hand red-head is me.

I'm glad to hear a little moaning isn't a turn-off cuz I'm a noisy one. And it's Bella, not Donna...

 

You look like a bad girl... but maybe you're just drawn that way!

 

Wow.

 

Hehe Jessica Rabbit is my hero, she's too fine for a toon!

And anarchist, I'm diggin' your sig!