boring teenage love story...any advice?

ok,i seriously don't know what to do!
A copple of months ago I had this relationship with this guy...I loved him,adored him even!we saw each other in the weekends 'cause he lived in another town so...but still everytime we saw each other,I fell in love with him over and over!!!! but then after a copple of months he started to act real strange...being really distant,not anwsering my messages or phonecalls...ya know. so hell,he was being this complete prick and I didn't know what to do with myself and going crazy!!! and then,after the last date (when I tought everything was going great again!) he broke up with me. I was a mess! I never cried over a guy but now...damn! so after we broke up and I got a grip on myself I started this thing with another guy,the whole time I was foolin myself into thinking I liked,loved this guy when actually I knew I didn't love him the way lovers do...sorry enough! but now,I'm stuck with mister ex-bf in my mind! he was the first who made me feel things I didn't really know I had in me...but still (gotta be honest here..)he's...self-centred and big-headed cause he knows all bout the shit goin in and out the ....ya know! so now...what now...should I maybe give it a second chance or should I just let it go and forget all bout him,since he doesn't feel the need for us being friends...
ok...I know this is probably one off the many shit-ass-teenage-boring-story's you listend to in your lifes but I would really appreciate some thoughts off mind.
thanx anyway...
peace!

 

wel... i think that u shud leave him alone and u should stay with being single 4 a while until u no that u have gotten ova your ex. im not saying that u wont like him anymor, but i think u shud b by yourself until you know that you dont wanto be with him anymore. *take care*

 

I had the same problem. I was devestated. But I continued to be his friend and in time I learned to get over him. My feelings are that if you really love someone, truly love them, you'll want them to be happy even if its not with you. It was tough being his friend at first but then I fell easily into it. Funny thing is, after awhile through our friendship all the hurts of the breakup healed i think for the both of us. Then he asked me out again and things are peachy. Maybe you just need time by yourself to figure out who you are away from him. Or even better you could run off and marry a rock star, one of the two. GOOD LUCK!

 

I know exactly what your goin' thru, but my relationship is just getting 2 the "distant" part. I fall for his eyes every time i see them, but hes such a jerk to me now...I say you need a boyless vacation, and after, some single-enjoyment.