help with these sex books please!!!!

ok i have taken and listened to the advice given to me and got a couple of books by betty dodson and nancy friday, can someone please explain them to me, as i really cant understand a word of either of them!!!!!! im trying my hardest to understand where the hell i ve been going wrong all these years regarding sex, and took the advice of going back to basics and starting over again, but after reading the four books by these women i havent got a clue what they are on about!!!

betty dodson books seem to me to be about a woman thats so proud of the way she can get herself off in just about any situation so long as she has an electrcity supply, and has the attitude of look if i can do it so can you!

nancy friday - well that one might aswell be written in japanese for all that i can see,

am i just being thick?

 

So exactly what do you not understand? Are you thinking too hard when you are reading those books? If so, just relax and enjoy the contents rather than being hell-bent on trying to "understand". I have two books by Nancy Friday, both if which are very enlightening. I'd also recommend "For Yourself: The fullfillment of female sexuality" by Dr. Lonnie Barback. This one is probably better suited for your situation since it gets quite a bit into the topic of "preorgasmic" women who have trouble achieving orgasm.