I know I shouldn't be asking questions like this to you guys who don't know me at all. But I've been debating the question for a while now and I can't seem to come up with an answer.. I'm really afraid of getting stds and AIDS and pregnant and any other consequences that come with sex, but I want to do it really, really bad. I don't know why, just lately I've been wanting to have sex with this guy who I know has to have something, he's been with a lot of girls.And that scares me, but I figure I'm going to have sometime in my life, so why not just get it over with? It's not that I'm not ready for it or anything. I mean, I am. Just scared. Do you guys think I should just do it?
you're only 14.i think you should calm downyou've got many years ahead of you and many chances.no need to rush things.
not at all... exspecially if you think he has something. and if you do for some reason, you should go to planned parent hood and get on some birth control and you should also double bag it if you know what i mean, i think you do...
Alright..yeah. You guys are right. That's another thing..I know fourteen is young to be having sex. My friends do and I just say that we're barely teenagers and already having sex? That's not right. Man. I'm so confusing.
Plus he's been with alotta girls. So I'd assume that 1. He's older and 2. Is just a playa... Using all the young girls he can find.
Fuzz- Yeah, I know. That's not why I want to. Sunshine- Well, he's only a year older. I guess he hasn't had that many girls as in like fifty. He's just been with girls who have been with a lot of guys.
plus having sex with him isn't going to make him like you any better, it will only make him dis respect you. the more you don't let him have it, the more he will want it, and that my friend is how it should stay... make the right choice, don't do it just because you feel like you have to measure up with your friends. you will be really happy that you made the right decision in the end...
yea its when you astral travel... or if you prefer the term "out of body experience" and you mate with other spirits or if you prefer "soul". hehe
like everyone said there's always time for it - and you wouldn't want to have sex before youre ready....that's no fun at all, and very confusing