I'm freaked out by what happened after a recent orgasm... I'd had orgasms with girls before, but only from sex or from doing things together where I had to help myself along... So this time was the first time ever that I'd orgasmed with a girl, just from her doing things (hands and oral). It was really intense... _really_ intense. And towards the end I had to beg her not to touch the tip because I was SO sensitive. What bothers me is this: Normally after an orgasm I love snuggling, and want nothing more than to just lie there snuggling tightly with my girlfriend. But this one time, I was suddenly averse to being touched. It wasn't that I was physically sensitive or something; I just wanted to roll over by myself. I've really been freaked out by this. I felt like all of a sudden I had this compulsion to do that horrible thing people complain of: the guy orgasms, and then he's done, doesn't want to snuggle, doesn't want to be loving, just rolls over alone. So yeah, I'm REALLY bothered by this. Any thoughts??
i dont think you should worry about this if only happened once, sometimes u feel like not cuddling with the person after sex, that's totally normal now, let's hope it doesnt happen again or too often, cause then there's the problem lol.
After I orgasm, I don't cuddle. It drives a lot of guys crazy, actually. I think it's a silly belief that you're supposed to cuddle after sex. I either like to roll over and go to sleep, or get up and do something with all that built up energy.
I usually like cuddling, but sometimes I just DO NOT WANT TO BE TOUCHED. My ex used to touch me when I didn't want to be, and I'd end up being in a huff with him for ages, not being wanted to be touched for hours. It's probably just a feel like it/don't feel like it off and on thing.
I don't like to cuddle, what I do afterwards, after I wipe myself up, is say "There's 40 bucks on top the dresser Chocolate."
I love to be cuddled after sex. I love to be cuddled anytime, and I'm fat and cuddly. And drruuunk. To bed...
I wouldn't worry about it. This isn't abnormal. Maybe you felt uncomfortable because you hadn't been able to orgasm from that before?
that sounds logical to me.. the dude i'm currently fucking, well, i was the first chick to ever get him off by oral alone.. i guess because it takes him a while to climax that way and the rest of the girls would just give up.. but not me - my philosophy is that if he doesn't cum, i haven't done my job. - but anyways, back to the point- that first time i got him off from oral, he seemed slightly uncomfortable afterward.. so i'm just agreeing with what she ^ said. and with the fact that it's not abnormal
it's totally normal, don't worry. Every now and then people get really crazy orgasms, things that just aren't normal for 'em. The first time I orgasmed with someone after having lost my virginity, I could barely stand to be touched, it was almost too intense, almost too strong/powerful to deal with. I mean, in a good way, but if there was more than one fingertip on me at a time I pushed him away... just make sure your girl knows the what and why of what happened, not just that it did... and cuddle later on with her of course
