I really love

that first time you have sex with someone, the first time you make love to them. Not necessarily your first time ever, but your first time with -that- person that you care so much about. I love how it's so often soft and gentle (at least to start with )

aaah, what do you really love about sex/intimacy?

 

yeah, that ^ is awesome.. i like that part a lot..

and i like it when you're with someone new for the first time - not necessarily making love, but just the first time you have sex with that person, and you're kind of learning eachothers body.. that can be a lot of fun..

i really like being comfortable enough with my partner to try new things.. to push my own boundaries.. that's something that i haven't had that with a lot of them.. but i kind of lucked out with my current fuckbuddy.. because i do feel comfortable enough with him to try some things i never thought i'd even do, much less enjoy.. i'm not nearly as self-conscious as i used to be, but it's still there.. and it's nice for me to be able to have that kind of.. security/trust in my partner

oh, and i also like waking up beside them.. sooo much better than waking up alone

 

i love the first few months with a new partner getting to know their body and how intimate you are. Waking up next to him and gazing into their eyes and having that sense of security and love

 

I haven't woken up beside him yet, aside from dozing off slightly one day. Soon though :X

but yeah, I really love that first sort of exploratory period with someone, when you're still learning so much about them. Not that you stop learning about people after so long, but you learn more in shorter times at the start of a relationship I find. Mmmm

 

I love when you feel comfortable enough to laugh during sex

 

mmmm, I also love that slightly bruised/sore feeling from really good sex... not a real pain, more like a reminder, mmmmmm

 

I like that feeling too after being with somone new and having to adjust to accomodate them in methem. the first time is so freaking incredible.

 

Waking up beside your partner is wonderful and falling asleep in their arms, too.

 

aaaaaah yes...*sigh*
i love that,
and the looking in eachothers eyes and
falling asleep together afterwards too...mmmm