Who can't wait to have kids

and a family of their own?

 

*raises hand*

 

*lowers hand*...infact no, that sounds wrong uhm..*shakes head*

 

only 18 more....

well im finally going to bed. night.

 

.........

 

Is that sperm?

Seriously, Death, you are young and this was not planned out. My friend's husband has had that happen to him twice. Once, in high school, and again later on when a girl thought she'd trap him into marrying her.

Now, they are expecting their own planned baby this month....and he is so excited to be having a real family situation.

 

That's how I was. I always knew I wanted to be a mama, and that I wanted to have my children earlier on in life (my hubby felt that same way). Now we have three little ones.

 

I want to have a family someday but not yet. The idea of having kids right now freaks me out quite a lot.

 

I want a family. But it can wait until I graduate and can afford to take care of myself and have savings

 

I do desire to have a family someday. I don't really think about having kids so much as finding the right girl first to build a meaningful relationship and ultimately a marriage that lasts a lifetime. When I find her, then I'm sure I'll start thinking about children

 

you know, everyone always had such huge plans for my future, but i had no family around me to back it up. my family was awful. hell, i wasn't able to give my mother hugs or touch her unti l i was nearly 18. so when a meaningful and happy family life was my priority achievement, no one understood. i still don't think they do. but for me, stable ground to stand on and to fall back on is essential for me to achieve anything. if i don't feel secure in my home, i can't DO ANYTHING. i shut down, i freak out, i'm an extremely unhappy person. i'm only 30, i'm nearly ready.

 

Oh my goodness, that's me to a "T" as well. Because of my homelife while growing up, I had a burning desire to create a better life for my own children, a home full of love, instead of the constant screaming, fighting, and abuse I grew up around. I wanted a happy and healthy family life for both myself as well as my children.

 

I've seen way too many products of bad parenting to be in any rush to get into that. The key would be the woman who would be partner in this undertaking.

 

I don't know if I want kids or not. I think I just see how hard their life's can be and am exposed to one's who don't fit in and can't reach the potential of their peers. I believe that babies pick their mothers and I am certain I would give birth to a child with a mental illness or who has special needs. Also, what if I got divorced how would I handle things? So no for now I don't see myself having kids but who knows? If I were still single in another ten years I would definitley adopt if I had the financial means toprovide a good and engaging home and had family involvement.

 

I Want a Lil' Boy...But Yeah...I Should Probably wait until I'm Done with Uni...

But...Hmm...I'm Not Interested in Being in any Relationships...

 

me me me!!! ....oh wait....

 

i am still in deciding on whether or not i would like to have kids.

 

i can most definitely wait
indefinitely

still not sure if i ever want kids, or if i do i'll probably adopt if I can, take in unwanted kids n suchlike

 

at age 22 i got the big snip snip, i now shoot blanks ( im 30 now ) my reasoning was that by the time i met the right woman she would probably have kids already.. and i wouldnt need to further complicate her life like that... i was right, i met her and she has 3, so i HAVE children... theyre fun most the time ( dont dig being woke up by the 3 year old playing supergirl and landing on my nads much though ) ahh theyre fun, and the plus side is i dont gotta punish them, i can just sic mom on the and be done with it YAY!!!

 

yes i can see how that may be slightly irritating