Masturbation: Help or hinderance for a relationship?

There definitely seems to be a lot of interest in self pleasure...

 

masturbation definitely helps in a relationship ..one has to know their own body before one can give and recieve pleasure ....even better when both do it in front of one another ...then you learn what pleasures the other

 

There's nothing wrong with a healthy appetite for solo sex while in a relationship. Just as long as you're not skipping out on playing with your partner to play by yourself, everything's fine.

 

Completely off topic...kinda: I just checked out your gallery, Bella. Damn, girl, you are hot! If you're ever in New Zealand, look me up, k?

 

lmao... just giving a girl a compliment, man. No need to freak out.

 

Hahaha, for learning and support? I've seen much more "picking up" then learning 'round these parts, dear. Trust me, I've been here for a while.

And Taylor, off-topic flattery is always welcome. Thank you. And might I add, you're quite striking yourself.

 

I think masturbation is a great form of foreplay too!

 

HA...

 

Actually, I've been here since the dawn of the forums, dear. I just happen to change IDs often. Any doubts about my authenticity can be brought to Skip. Not that I need to justify myself to a man who's nuts have turned purple... Please stop playing "mod-wannabe".

 

Definite help! My sex drive tends to dwindle if I don't masturbate with some amount of regularity (at least once a week and I'm fine). Such a weird trap - no sex drive so I don't masturbate which means I have no sex drive which means....

I think I'm wired strangely

 

I think its a good thing, although its a lot harder for me to come when I'm with my boyfriend around...I don't know what it is. Isn't he supposed to make it easier to come?

 

I love watching my girlfreind materbate and she gets really turned on by watching me. When I watch her make herself cum with her fingers in her pussy how can I not love her and want to make love to her.