The craziest date ever....lol

Well lets just say theres this guy at work that I had a crush on for over a year....Im recently single and we went out. He asked me on the first date at dinner if i was a very sexual person.....then he clarified and said, if u are with someone, do u like to have sex with them alot? I was thinking wtf? He is the last person I would ever think that would be so blatanty forward about that. Then he wanted to know how many. I was honest but a bit offended. Then later he tongued my ear, bit me (which was ok ) and said finger sucking is nice, he also sucked on my tongue so hard I thought i had lost it and it hurt like hell. Ok finger sucking....for a girl to do to a guy...cuz....ya know it makes sense. But he sucked my finger.....isnt that a bit weird????? Geez I dont know what to think...im a bit thrown off. I dont want to jump into a relationship with someone right away...but still this is the weirdest date ever...and believe me, I have had weird. He seems like the most innocent guy, witty, smart...just plain nice....good looking might i add....but an unexpected freak...i just cant figure out if he just wants to jump my bones or really likes me and hes just kinky? lol

 

lol If I were in your situation............. have a little fun with the guy, I'm sure he could have a great life story but how often do you meet someone like that????

Where do you work, J/C?

 

I don't think the finger sucking is odd at all. I find it totally erotic when my hubby does that to me.

 

Well, it IS very erotic for couples, or as foreplay, but on a first date? I too think that's bizarre. Especially to really bluntly start talking sex if you guys haven't had a lot of intimacy or out-of-work social contact. It's kind of funny though. How did you feel about it, was it uncomfortable or exciting? Maybe he's just been super into you for a long time and couldn't hold back. Ya little vixen!

 

fingersucking is hot, but it shouldnt' be really strong or painful like that. It's mroe for showign of tongue-dexterity than anything else, as far as I can tell. It's hot, I really do like it when my guy does it to me, but it's soft and slow and gentle and warm, not at all painful


sounds like this guy really wants to jump your bones though, like he's a litle too desperate to fall into bed with you

 

That's the weirdest first date...

If I were you, which I'm not, but if I were in your situation, I probably wouldn't go out with him again. He seems a bit TOO forward and too persistant on getting in your pants.

 

Seriously though, I agree, it is rather odd for a first date. Actually, not rather odd, but really odd.

 

sounds like this guy is crazy! lol if he is just now becoming a completely diffferent person that what you originally thought, it might be a good idea to not start a relationship so quick. I say go on a few more dates or whatever and see if he just wants you for sex, or if he really is falling for you. When someone asks those types of questions on a FIRST date....it sounds like thats all hes interested in...but i dunno i could be totally wrong....finger sucking is just somethin that he gets turned on by, everyone has their own things lol. I know i like my neck to be kissed. I like kissing girls' necks as well but over time, you just find out those things that your partner really enjoys. Have fun and be safe! PEACE

 

Heh....well since I had a boyfriend the 2 years I had known this guy...I only had a crush on him and we just sorta had innocent flirting and there was a rumor that he was a virgin. So I assumed that cuz it made sense with the way he acted, BEFORE the date of course hahah. Im sorta bummed cuz I thought he would be different. On the date he was saying really cocky things like how good looking and sexy he is...now he has a weird sense of humor....so it could have been a joke but it was sorta a turn off. He has liked me for over a year....and I thought I knew him better. I suppose if I deny him sex and he doesnt stick around I will know he only wanted one thing

 

either this guy is desperate or just that cool. maybe he feels just totally comfertable around you. obviously, he likes you. but to be that forward, one might wonder if he just wants to get laid. good luck!

 

haha boy sounds bit freaky lol i dont i dont think finger sucking for guys is all that weird. kinda cute nice whatever. but to me sounded like he wanted a lay from a hot chic at work and was just trying to see how kinky you maybe se if you were gonna be any good ... honestly i dont know but yours right about bein a crazy date