wassup everyone, i am curious as to what exactly my friend (girl) is thinking. She comes over to my house to smoke bud like all the time because she cannot smoke at her place. However, she has never really said anything about the way she feels about me, or even if she wants to take our relationship further. I do not even know if she feels the way about me as i do her. I know she is looking for someone to love tho. She is very shy and is hard to open up and i dont think she has very much experience with relationships, and i want her to know that i want to be with her and that we should start something. So basically, she just comes over to smoke. But i dont know if shes sending signals my way or anything What should i do? Is there something i should watch out for...in order to tell what she wants or if shes trying to tell me something? What should i tell her? THX! PEACE LOVE MUSIC
talk to her, ask from her ya say like hei dudette, come here there is something i think you should know..
eh, if she hasn't brougth anything up, discussed your guys' future or actually flirted with you, she's probably not interested
Although you can't say this is true about everyone ... The O.P. said that she was very shy and not very open. I can definitely imagine a shy guy or girl not saying anything just because they're afraid of what they might hear. At least, I am kind of that way. O.P.: I say give it a shot. You don't really have anything to lose. But don't exactly spill your guts either.
exactly... hikaru Yer so RIGHT but I mean im shy too (he he he) and so this is why i think its better just to ask, and say how you feel about her and stuff like this.. couse otherwise she might fall in love with you and you have no ideas of it and stuff like this.. things might go way too serious and complicated.. good luck
Coming from someone that went over to a guy's house just to smoke bud- I was there just to smoke bud. I hope that is not true in your case though
vraiment, i can't say it about everyone but... leads me to believe that she isn't all that interested in him. Not that she would necessarily say no to a relationship, but I don't think it's occured to her that the OP is someone she could date
I myself have actually fallen in love....once. But i know what comes with falling in love and i have no problem with it. I would love for her to fall for me lol. But i am not scared of committing to someone. In fact thats exactly what i want. --also, we have known eachother since we were in middle school (were in college now ofcourse) and we have always been friends. But now she just wants to come over to smoke. If you ask me....i kinda think she doesnt really want anything to do with me. But at the same time, theres something that tells me she does. She is VERY hard to open up i can tell ya that. She apologizes for absolutely everything imaginable and i always tell her how good she looked this night and she is always just like "yeah right" ya know? Hmm....
do you think it would be wise to kiss her before i tell her how i feel? To see what happens....or would it be better if i told her shes basically perfect first? Gratse -JFJO
How exactly do you feel? I wouldn't kiss her if I were you. Theres a time and place for everything and its better to wait for the right moment where you both feel it rather than taking the chance. Maybe try being blunt about it with her.
umm.. well falling in love is nice feeling.. it feels like you have butterflies in yer belly.. and umm.. and kissing and heart beating fast .. yes kiss her
Ask for her home phone number ,if you don't already have it,then call her up for a date.Also,stop having her over to smoke bud and hang out like she was a guy buddy. ~peace & love
Ok, why not ask her out to movie or something? This would tell her you are interested, but wouldn't be a direct lunge at her in a sexual way. If she says yes, then lay one on her during your "date".
Flirt a little, see how she responds, go from there. Ah, considering a kiss....one of the best times of a budding romance. I miss it now that I am married lol.
I think this is bad advice. To me the best relationships come out of someone who can be a friend as well.
