How to ask A girl to do Anal?

Whats the best way?Im just to scared to ask my girlfriend to try it.

 

I would suggest this:

Valentine's day is coming up, so this is perfect for your situation. Buy her a box of chocolates, BUT - and here's the twist - put a picture of a girl getting fucked in the ass underneath them, so that as she eats them away the picture is gradually revealed.

This is good because the thing about anal sex is that you have to take it slow - GRADUALLY INTRODUCING your penis into her ass. So as she eats the chocolates, she is GRADUALLY exposed to the picture, and hence the idea, of anal sex. If you just handed her a picture of a girl getting fucked in the ass it would be an overload. She'd be like "Whoa", and probably leave you on the spot. But this way she has time to get comfortable with the idea. Unless she's a pig and eats all the chocolate at once. In that case you have other problems and I can't help you.

I know what you're thinking - "But Rigamarole, that will never work!"

Believe me, it will. You need to be open minded about these types of things.

 

Wow,I never thought of that,I'll try it ,thanks

 

wow, that analogy worked extremely well, haha

 

wow your weird, but it works i guess.
Personally? If she into nascar ask her if she wants your astroglide(type of lube) sponsered car to slip into the number two hole....
BTW- Nascar stands for Non Athletic Sport Centered Around Rednecks

 

wow, that analogy worked extremely well, haha

 

lol

 

Hmmnn pictures and choclate. I don't think so, a bit immature and probably won't work. Just because she sees someone else doing it does not mean she is immediatley going to jump up and say "let's try that". Also makes you look like a weirdo, putting porn pictures in a box of choclates
Now to do this properly you are going to have to take your time and put a plan in place. Yeah I know you want bum fun and you want it now but that ain't how it works. There is quite a bit of excitment to be had in the planning stages and in seeing the various stages work.
First off you will need to get her used to the idea that you like her behind and that you are mature enough to be trusted back there. This involves stroking her buttocks and telling her that she has a sexy ass, once she is used to you touching her buttocks you can move to touching her anus gently. Be aware that some woman don't like to be touched there because of hygiene concerns, so make sure she has a shower/bath before going for the starfish. Once you are more experienced she won't be so bothered.
Now you are going to have to be mature enough to realise that if she is against you touching her butt hole, with your finger, she is not going to be a fan of anal.
Alright, assuming she is cool with having you stroke her anus with your finger it is time to get a bit more kinky by using your mouth instead of your hand to stimulate her buttocks and anus. Start by kissing her buttocks and judge her reaction to this, if she is relaxed then you can move to the rim and start to give her a rim job. Be aware that women generally don't like to be kissed after this but once you get the fact across that there are more germs in a mouth than a anus she may change her mind. Yes it's true you are more likely to get a disease from french kissing than rimming.
Now assuming she is cool with you tongueing her bum do not automatically assume that she is going to stick her bum up in the air and want you to give it to her deep and hard.
Next step is to stimulate her starfish during vaginal sex, this is best achieved while in the missionary position (due to her vaginal juices running down towards her anus) with her natural vaginal juices aiding in lubricating your finger/s.
So she is comfortable with you doing all this, from here you can go two ways: Verbal or physical
Verbal: Talk about it now that you have introduced anal stimulation. While you are lying in bed kissing, cuddling and you gently stroking her anus ask her how she feels about anal penetration. Be mature enough to accept that she may not want to go that way and don't crack a sad and storm out of the bedroom. Give it time, she may want to think about it.
Physical: This is a continuation of the anal stimulation of the rim during vaginal sex and involves you gently inserting one finger when she is properly lubricated. Do not go too deep or insert two or more fingers at this stage. This is an excercise in judgeing how she feels about anal penetration. The preferred method is verbal once she gets the idea that you are interested in bum fun.
However some people are not that good at talking about sex.
If she does not mind you putting your finger/s into her ass then it is definatley time to lay it on the line and ask her wether she would like to try anal sex (because to have good anal you will need more than just vaginal juices as lubricant), with an emphasis on wanting to please her and not so much that you want to do something less vanilla. You never know she may have wanted to try bum fun but just did not want to talk to you about it.
All this should be done over a period of some time to give her time to adjust.
If you think you can turn your GF into a anal addict overnight you may be quite wrong and could damage your relationship badly.
Once she gives you the green light take your time and get the proper equipment for the job. Do not have the gear all ready because you expected her to say yes, pretend that you are surprised that she would give it a try and tell her that you love her. Then you can shopping for a top shelf brand of lubricant and condoms together, followed by a romantic dinner and then off to bed. However don't go straight for the brown hole but rather have sex as you would normally with lots of anal stimulation and save the anal sex for when you are both excited and relaxed enough for it.

 

whats the big deal, just ask if she said no.. dont ask why just say alright. if she says yeah go for it.

 

Ahh yes the solution of the now generation.
If you are in a hurry I suppose that is better than the picture in a box suggestion. However what I was getting at was to gently introduce the female to the idea that her anus is an erogenous zone and letting her get used to the idea gradually that you would not mind some backdoor action. If she thinks to herself "Hmmmn I don't mind him putting his tongue and finger in there I wonder what it would feel like to have his dick in there" then there is more chance of extending the range of sexual play.
However if you are in a hurry to park your sausage down brown alley then there is one piece of advice that should be followed.
That is to leave her and yourself an honourable way out of the situation, by that I mean you should approach the issue from the angle that you want to please her and being a gentleman you offer her something which she may be too shy to ask for.
Along the lines of "Darling (or put her name here) I love you very much and want to ensure that I am doing everything to make you happy, therefore I was wondering wether you want anything out of the ordinary in our sex life. Is there something you want to do or try? I am very happy with the way things are and I am so lucky to have met a wonderful woman like you but I realise that sometimes people have fantasies which they are a bit reluctant to talk about."
This puts the female in control and she is not put on the spot to say yes or no to a particular activity.
The most important part of a good sex relationship is the ability to communicate in an adult way your wants and desires.
And before you people start putting pictures in boxes ask yourself how you would feel if your woman presented you with a picture of a man getting poked with a strap on?

 

No, no, "ramming it in" is NOT good at all! You have to SLOWLY get her used to, first the idea of having something in her anus itself, and two, actually having something in there. My advice is, start with something nice and small like a finger first. Gradually move on to bigger objects so, in the end, she will be comfortable having your penis inside her anus.

BUT, by all means, DO NOT push her into it if she isn't willing to try.

 

Look mate, let's get one thing straight. Fear and pain have no place in sex and if you think a half decent woman is going to accept what you suggest that then you are quite mistaken.
Sex is about love, respect and pleasure. Pain, fear, humiliation, intimidation and other negative things are what sicko perverts do, are you a sicko pervert?
How would you react if your sex partner "accidentaly" rams a dildo up your ass?
Might I also suggest you stop watching porn (where you seem to get your ideas from) and get a real girlfriend with whom you can explore the real world of love.
One last thing, I am 36 which means I have been doing this stuff for quite a while and know a thing or two about how the female mind works. Perhaps you could let us know your credentials for offering advice on sex. My advice to you nut grabber is to listen and learn.

 

What a fag!

 

Yup

 

hahaha that would be a great way to introduce the idea however having a guy that comfortable and sincere is slim to none, at least in my age range anyways. Im in no hurry but Ive let the idea run around in my head a bit there for if I was approached with the opportunity I would be less shocked/surprised and probley more willing, considering the person.

 

I do feel sorry for you (and the other ladies), guess your dreams of meeting princess charming are starting to evaporate. Or at best prince charming will ram his dick up your ass to get you to like anal sex.
Personally I blame peerpressure, once upon a time a girl was peerpressured into sex and oral (which was bad enough) but now they get peerpressured into anal and deep throat. Guess if all the other girls are willing to take it up the ass for a couple of scotch and cokes then you have to compete or risk being labelled a frigid virgin (there is nothing wrong with being a virgin and lot healthier than having unprotected anal sex). Perhaps when the boys turn into men they will wake up to themselves but don't hold your breath.
Hmmn, I might just have to remember to let the local boys know that if any of them think they can treat my daughter like that they will have to like the idea of having a baseball bat hammered up their ass and then walk home to get their mum to pull it out nice and gently.
Lastly please people, if you are going to do anal use a condom. The walls of the rectum where not designed for fucking and bleeding can occur. Plus there are lots of bugs/bacteria in the rectum which can give your dick a nasty rash or worse.

 

You could ask her if she takes additional parking in the rear.

 

I never liked fucking ass. pussy is the best one. if is period day, mouth is the better. ýf she gone to dentist then make yourself.

 

If you do it right, you don't have to ask. When your eating her pussy you make it into a slow love making process. Start with her clit and work back and forth between her pussy and her clit with mostly your tongue and a little help from your fingers. When she's really HOT and WET, keep your fingers in her pussy and slowly and casualy slide your tongue down and start rimming her ass. You will get an immediate response. After you loosen up her sphincter with your tongue, slowly ass fuck her with your tongue. While doing this, you must alternate back and forth to her clit and pussy. When she is ready, you will get one of two responses. 1/She'll explode with an immense orgasm and after she comes back to earth she will beg you to fuck her pussy like a wild animal to finish her off, (and of course, that's NOT bad) or 2/she will immediately beg you to FUCK HER UP THE ASS. Almost always works for me. It usually takes about an hour but, believe me, either way, it's worth it.

 

By the way.....YellowBellyHippy.....do you take additional parking in the rear?