Ma'am

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Bellfire01, Mar 9, 2006.

  1. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    What is this new fad where everywhere you go and no matter what you do, someone has to call you ma'am? Why are we getting this overload of ma'ams from everyone. 3 years ago no one called me ma'am now everyone is and it's really silly. (They use to say Miss or nothing at all.) I thought it was just me until I heard a lady call some 17 year old lady ma'am lol. What is it with the ma'am?
     
  2. marbchic

    marbchic Member

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    polite .. . and, er, respectful?
     
  3. greengoddess

    greengoddess Nature Freak!

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    I hate that.. it makes you feel old..

    I haven't gotten it alot though..
     
  4. Bellfire01

    Bellfire01 I'll say anything

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    I think it's this new thing that was once trying to be respectful and has turned into getting even. A lot of men&women over 50 mostly call me ma'am lol. ;)
     
  5. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    its a sign of respect...i don't think it has anything to do with age...same with someone calling a man "sir"
     
  6. hippychickmommy

    hippychickmommy Sugar and Spice

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    Men and women over 50 tend to call me "honey", teenagers employed at the stores I shop call me "ma'am". :p
     
  7. indescribability

    indescribability Not To Be Continued

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    i generally reserve that title for people i do not know and employees of stores. i feel it is more polite then hey you excuse me but.....
     
  8. kjhippielove88

    kjhippielove88 color + rhyme

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    i dont call anyone ma'am except for when im visiting my relatives down south. its a huge deal if i address a woman without calling her ma'am
     
  9. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    Sorry, ma'am. Actually I hate being called "sir", even by my own kids.
     
  10. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    A woman should only be referred to as ma'am if they look to be in their mid-late 30s and older. For younger 20-something women, it's usually "miss."
     
  11. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    Not only a little sexist, significantly ageist.

    WTF happened to Rochester? Did the conservative right take completely over after Kitty Fabulous moved to the southern tier???
     
  12. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    I have no idea what you're talking about.
     
  13. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    That is correct.
     
  14. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    What is?
     
  15. antithesis

    antithesis Hello

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    I am annoyed if someone calls me ma'am or miss, what someone calls me shouldn't be based on age or my marital status.
     
  16. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    So what are you supposed to call someone who you don't know in order to get their attention?

    Some people are way too PC.
     
  17. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    Are we getting too picky over language here, people are just trying to be polite, they don't mean any offense..besides, it generally only happens when you are a customer somewhere
     
  18. Zoomie

    Zoomie My mom is dead, ok?

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    Thank you.
     
  19. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    I'll just call you fuckhead, sir
     
  20. Pressed_Rat

    Pressed_Rat Do you even lift, bruh?

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    Fuckhead.
     
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