Basically i think that my head is overly sensitive... Im uncircumcised and when i get given oral sex it kind of hurts,, but doesnt.. its really sensitive, but doesnt feel all that good. Will i 'desensitise' over time? how long will it take? i want to enjoy oral sex! Also sex with a condom is fine... my gf is going on the pill next week and were both clean, so were going to try it without a condom... will it feel the same/better as with a condom, or will it be more 'painful' like oral? Is it a good idea to use some lube on my first attempt without a condom? Cheers in advance!
It will desensitise try constant masturbation.(seriously if u do it too much itll hurt and then be desensited for a day) When i saw the title of this post i thought it was a chick and like about her jaw or throught...
my last guy was like that, got overstimulated very easily our solution was for me to pull his foreskin up a bit before performing oral... because I almost always use my hand as well, I just reached down, took him in my hand, pulled up on his skin again while keeping some firm pressure (didn't pull a lot, just as much as he wanted me to) so that his foreskin covered part of his head again while I performed oral... ran my hand up and down his shaft so that sometimes his head was exposed but not -all- the time, which is what had lead to the sensitivity and overstimulation
Wearing jeans with NO underwear will help in time to desensitize your penis, also start sleeping naked. The fact your penis is covered by a protective foreskin makes it a lot more sensitive to any stimulation. Something I should mention, because you have foreskin its important that you pull the skin back and wash it with a mild soap and apply a good hand lotion after intercourse. You will come to find that after sex your foreskin will become very sensitive and irritated because of the constant friction and rubbing against the vaginal walls. Sex without a condom does feel better. The fact that you and your girlfriend are planning to have sex without a condom will only increase the sensitivity which will cause you to loose your staying power and cause you to pre-ejaculate meaning you will "cum" or "shoot your load" very quickly. Another thing that will help is masturbating prior to having sex. Also there are flavored jels that come in small tubes that when rubbed on the head of the penis will numb your dick and increase your staying power. In regards to intercourse, only use lube on the head of your penis if your girl friends vagina is dry, adding lube will only make your penis more sensitive and again cause you to ejaculate that much more quickly. Besides if you practice enough foreplay she will be good and wet and there will be no need for lube, right? If you have any other questions feel free to email me. kerry PS Your girlfriends doctor will inform her but just so that you know even though she is going on the pill there is a time period you will still have to use condoms until her body adjusts or she will get pregnant. And if she gets pregnant you won't have to worry about your dick being sensitive because her father is going to cut it off hahaha.
