So heres the spill. I have a friend. Her name is Rachael. I met her in highschool a while back. Shes the quiet hippy type girl but shes so unbelieably beautiful. Shes had my interest from the second I laid eyes on her.I was interested in her even before she said hi to me. Anyways. She's with this guy. To be honest, he's not so uncool. I mean im friends with him. Ive known them both for quiet some time. Years even. But heres the problem. I cant stop thinking about Rachael. I see her sometimes and me her and a few friends hang out and we all go our seperate ways. But I just cant stop thinking about her. Its driving me crazy. I dont know what to do. I dont think he treats her right and I want to make her happy. With me. Its acually pretty crazy to see it all writen out like that. I want to make her happy with me. But do I loose a friend because of it. And is he that big of a friend that I cant let him go for what I truley want to pursue. Its all mixed up. What are your thoughts?
Dude, if you break them up he'll hate you, then she will not be happy either. It's a mess. Just contain yourself. Find someone else. It is so uncool to go after a friend's girl. Especially if he is treating her right. If down the road they break up it STILL could be messy if you went after her. Has she given you any reason to think she might want to be with you, or is this just an infatuation thus far on your part?
brother i totally know where your coming from a couple of years ago i liked this girl alot and we were really good friends but she had a boyfriend i was also some what friends with.He treated her like shit, and the fought everysingle day,but they were togather for a couple of years prior and so she basically thought well i have been with him so long that she wanted to marry him and whatnot. The thing that hurt the most was i knew i could make her very happy unlike him and i knew if we started seeing each other i was in it for the long haul but i made a decision to just stop get over it and move on and to this day im grateful for the decision.Trust me there are thousands of beautiful mamas out there waiting.Love n lite Rainbow Randy
problem solved. inspite of my old thoughts and views i now understand thanks to your honest post. Thank you so very much.
