hey everyone. i'm new here, so if i dont do this right, dont yell at me, lol! anyway, i have a question. i'm a big time masterbater. i do it at least 2x a day if not more. i have only had sex twice in my life. both times were not good at all, and they were almost a year and a half ago. what i'm wondering is, since i get off so much from clit stimulation, do you think i might have a problem getting off during sex now? especially sex without clitoral stimulation? i'm also really tight. it hurts to put even something pretty small inside me, like a handle of a brush or something. is there a way to loosen myself up just a little bit? the reason i ask these things is because i think i may start being sexually active again kind of soon, if things with this new guy go well.
As a guy, I know that masturbation can have a negative effect on my sex life. If I masturbate a lot, then I get so used to getting off to only one kind of stimulation. Then, if a girl tries to get me off, she cannot match my technique, which I'm used to. Therefore, when I'm in a relationship, I mostly don't masturbate, but rather I save myself for my girl. Also, if I masturbate a lot, then I'm not as horny. So I have more difficulty coming for my girl. In general, masturbation is great & natural, but in certain circumstances, it's possible to masturbate a little too much for the good of the relationship. Specifically, in your situation, why don't you cut back on your masturbation a little bit, and then when you hook up with your guy, you can teach him & show him how to stimulate your clitoris, just as you do it, just as you like it. It'll take some time for him to learn it just right, but you & he can master it!!
wow, i swear that you were describing me, ive had sex about 4 times, with 3 with one person and 1 with the other, it was a year and 6 months ago, and i masturbate about 2 times a day if not more. I also might start getting sexually active again, seeing as I got me a new gf, no sex for a long while im sure though, but other fun is to ensue.
For the original poster, I'd recommend cutting back before you think you might be having your encounter. That way you will be horny as hell and it will be easier for you to get off with your new man. My ex had a similar issue with being too tight if we did not have sex for awhile, but said that after a few times she would get used to it. Maybe you could try some gradually bigger "objects" and work yourself in to shape. Also, I think most woman require some sort of clit stimulation to get off. If your man doesn't know what he is doing, don't be afraid to train him. Tell him what makes you get off. Drift
Usually for guys the longer u wait between orgasms the more intense the orgasm is. How does this affect ur sex like? Well I think if u don't masturbate and instead wait to orgasm until u have sex.......the orgasm will be stronger. It will be very intense. The downside though is u may cum too quickly. If cumming too quick is a concern then the best way to last longer while having sex is by masturbating to orgasm as close to the time ur going to have sex. The same day, a few hours before, one hour before.....depends on the guy, his age etc. If cumming quickly (premature ejaculation) is not an issue, then I say masturbate as often as u want. All it can do is make u last longer......which in my opinion is Awesome!!!!! The longer sex lasts, the better. Why rush it? Paul
Let him help you gently stretch the lips, and No!,you cannot over mastUrbate. You may find your own hand opening you up if you do it inside the outer lips. Stay happy down there, there's a great future awaiting a more relaxed you.
