i started off by having anal sex before having vaginal sex. it never hurt once when we did it... we stopped having anal sex for like 2 weeks... to have vaginal sex and when we tried anal sex it hurt like hell i was nearly in tears because it hurt so much.... i was all relaxed so im just wondering why it would hurt so much when it never hurt the first time. it still hurts now to have anal sex its so fustrating because me and my bf want to do it but it hurts so much.
I have no clue i never had sex yet .. lol i would amagin becasue your ass hmmmm or .... actually i have no clue .. it seems odd.... unless your ass shrunk? Or you might have hurt your self doing it alot and its sore... wait a while and give it another shot.
my first anal was awesome and didn't hurt a bit although I didn't even put lubricant and he didn't put condom - it just slipped in naturally. however sometimes it hurts indeed, especially if I climaxed before. so I guess you have to be really turned on in order to enjoy the anal sex and don't feel the pain. it's all in the head, you know.
If you want to have a real good laugh talk to anyone who has experience either in a hospital emergency room or especially radiology, its amazing the things people will shove up their ass and than wind up in the emergency room getting it removed. I can’t imagine what possess people to shove locks, light bulbs and every other imaginable object up their butt, nevertheless they do. The people who really make me scratch my head and say, “what the fuck are they thinking?” are the ones that shove a giant dildo just short of being the size of a fire hydrant up their butt. My rule for anal sex is, “if it’s bigger than your poop it shouldn’t go up your shoot.” Anal sex properly done can be very clean and extremely stimulating. People who have never experienced anal sex have no idea how sensitive the anus is, there’s probably more nerve endings in your butt hole than in your lips. However anal sex is like vaginal sex, you need to stimulate and prepare your partner prior to insertion or it will not only hurt but can also tear the soft membrane tissue. The same thing as prior to intercourse you would finger her and eat her out to get her ready right? Well the same rule applies to anal sex. Butt play is extremely important when it comes to enjoyable anal sex. Massage, caressing the butt crack, kissing, rimming and fingering go a long way. However lube and a good slap on the butt cheek (as needed) will always assist in the initial penetration of the anal ring. Slapping the butt cheek forces the sphincter muscle (butt hole) to relax allowing the penis entry. At this point the guy has to hold still and resist the urge to start humping, the sphincter muscle needs time to adjust to the intrusion. Even after the butt hole is semi relaxed avoid trying to slam your cock all the way in up to your balls (like you see in the porno’s), allow the person you’re fucking to get use to the pressure, they will let you know when they are totally ready for a rodeo ride. Note to first timers, that bloating full feeling of “I feel like I gotta take a shit” will subside and will turn into pure pleasure. For guys anal sex is really hot and erotic not only does the butt hole get stimulated but also the prostate. As the dick slides in and out it rubs against the prostate and the closer you get to orgasm the more sensitive it becomes. All I can say is get ready for the most intense orgasm you have ever had and wait until you see how much cum you’re going to shoot. The first time I had anal sex I came so much I though for a second I was peeing, seriously though I shot strong and powerful spasm after spasm of man juice. Hetero first timers, never switch from anal to vaginal sex without cleaning thoroughly, the anus is very rich in bacteria and you can give your girl a very serious vaginal bacterial infection. My best advice for anyone trying anal sex for the very first time, have your guy lay on his back and straddle his chest and slowly sit on his dick. By doing so you can control the penetration. The only problem with this method is you will both reach orgasm much quicker, the stimulation in this position is totally awesome. Kerry PS I avoided a lengthy detailed post, if anyone needs any further explanation please feel free to email me.
totally agree about amount of cum: when I let someone fuck me I sometimes just lie down without moving, and without touching anything I reach climax: those are the best orgasms that always result in looooots of cum.. can do it with vibrator too but it's less fun!! in "ordinary" sex or when I fuck someone else, there is less cum in the end - pretty weird when you think about it but I don't really care.
sorry, but my experience prove otherwise. call me weird or freak, but I know what I feel and when it hurts. sometimes it hurts I admit, but sometimes it does not hurt a bit..
I dont know why it didnt hurt the first time for you, I know for me it hurt like the first time i had sex period, and i was almost in tears then.
Rule1. Before inserting penis, insert finger(s) to stretch and play with sphyncter to relax entire area. Rule2. Refer to rule 1 over and over agin. Guarentee no pain when followed religiously.
my first experience with anal really hurt, so much it traumatized me! i found it very hard to do anal with my boyfriend, but it put pressure on me because hes used to having sex with girls that really liked anal etc etc. so we bought a buttplug and some lube and now its fine! try having a buttplug, they're really good for when anal is uncomfortable! x
