yay? Nay? I find crying very therapeutic, but I really dont' like doing it with people around. Well, my mom I can deal with since she's dealt with my crazy assed self since I was born, but I usually don't feel at all comfortable crying around other people, not that heavy, sobbing kind of crying that just gets out so much stress for me
yes i HATE crying around other people. whenever i cry i try really hard to hold it in even though it feels good. last time i cried my boyfriend was there and he just kept teling me to let it out and that was good.. but i still hate crying around others.. feels like some sort of weakness thing. i know thats dumb but still.
for the most part, i don't cry in front of anyone. pretty much only a very select few have seen me cry or even know about me crying even....
humbug, they just don't admit to crying I know whatcha mean though Sarah... I cried in my bf's arms a few nights ago (we haven't even been dating that long, and I've never cried in a bf's arms before, not like that) and it was just so soothing afterwards
the only people I ever feel okay to cry in front of is SO's...I try with every muslce in my body to contain it if it's around anyone else.
oh... and I really enjoy crying at stupid tv shows or movies. I mean, I'm alone then, but I enjoy it more than is probably normal. Like extreme home makeover... it always makes me tear up, and I kinda enjoy it. <--- weirdo
I'll cry in front of anybody. Not that I particularly like that fact, but when the urge strikes, there's no holding it back for me. I'm a highly emotional being.
yea i usually allow myself to cry but i try not to in front of people. i don't want to make people uncomfortable but sometimes it's really hard not to. i usually only cry when i stop thinking about what's stressing me. it's like i gotta have a blank mind to do it. but yea, it's really good for you. did ya know that way more toxins are found in "emotional" tears than regular eye water tears? toxins build up in your body when you're stressed or whatnot and when you cry, your body expels some through your tearducts. that's also one reason sweating makes people feel better.
I used to not be much of a cryer. I liked being the strong one, the solid one. But, since becoming pregnant, I just cry if I'm upset and it feels better. Like all of my tension melts away and I can just keep going. As far as men crying, it's a good thing. I've seen a man cry a couple of times and in every instance, I just knew that he needed it. He was feeling something a lot bigger than he was and needed to release.
I have to be really worked up to cry, and when I do, it rarely is in front of other people...I tend to feel humiliated when I cry (and I know that is not a good thing), so I keep it to myself...
humm . I rarely cry, cause im very indifferent, someone could rip my hand off and i would practically not care. I cried because of my grandpa's death, and after that a while ago... I cried in a shroom bad trip, because my sister was crying cause i just wasnt able to talk and answer her and stuff lol. and i also cried recently because i was really fucked up in the head. maybe because of my depression, but i had the weirdest thing ... just cried out for so long, and thought that some God gave me a lesson.
i totally despise crying. i hate crying. if there's no avoiding it i hide. then i hide the fact that i was crying in the first place. i don't want people getting all soap opera about it. people seeyou cry, suddenly they're in your face, demanding to know all your business because it excites them to be involved in a drama. fuck that shit.
