i have found true love, 3 years ago. we dated for 4 weeks, and we broke up. i then went to homeschooling and didnt talk to her for almost a year. she is all i thought about, and when i finally start talking to her agian, she wants to date me agian. then as time went by, we couldnt date agian because she didnt kno me that much anymore. i tell her that we need to get to kno each other more, but every time we get a chance my mom ggets all bitchy, and i cant do anything with her. now she dosent want to date me, but she tells me she loves me so much that i dont even kno. she is the only thing i have to live for, and i cant be with her. the fact that i cant be with her, makes me feel so bad, that ive even thought about killing myself to get out of it, and end my suffering. this has continued up to date, i still think that killing myself is the only way out of it. does anyone have any suggestions on what to do?
...ah to be young. My advice is to start drinking heavily. But seriously, don't even think about killing yourself over some stupid girl. If it really is "true love", then it will work out on it's own my man.
Love is hard, man. My heart has been broken and it is some hardcore shit. The only thing you realy can do is try your hardest to be with her no matter the cost (if she wants the same thing). If that is impossible then you gotta get over her, man. I know that sounds ridiculous, but it is true. The one thing you absolutley cannot do is end your life. Another piece of advice...if you can find another girl the sooner you get with her the sooner the pain eases. Just stick it, bro. Life is too short to get hung up on anything.
1. Don't drink heavilly that won't help. I know he's kidding but drugs nor alcohol will help true love. 2. If it is true love then you would never kill yourself- because if it is true love then she would be so hurt by your death, then you would be causing her pain. In true love to cause another pain is to be avoided with everything inculding yoru life. or I believe in love to strongly. You can decide. but you said true love and that is what true love is- an absolutley unseperable and unbreakable bond between two people in which each indvidual is so commited to the other that they act as a unified whole.
If you kill yourself then you'll never be with her. Suicide is a selfish act and like gandiwars said you'll cause her great suffering and pain if you choose to do so. You don't want to hurt someone you love do you? Besides do you really want to end it with the way things are now? If you continue to live on then you still have a chance to change things for the better. Life is tough. Things happen. I think BoozeJockey is right about if it's "true love" it'll work out somehow. But if it doesn't it isn't the end of the world. There's more to life than other people but sometimes strong emotions like love obscure that. Just do what you gotta do. Things will get better eventually.
gandhiwars' reply is the best I think! gandhiwars! You know! You're alright! Hey, theinsideman, please listen to gandhiwars. ---- I personally think that there's nothing, abnormal, about thinking suicide sometimes, but maybe if you say to yourself, like I did and do, hey self, don't me keep talking that and thinking that way everytime I'm devastated. Because my devastations are laughable laugh it off things to others, and if you tell yourself like me to replace the ultimate out, with some other kind of something that is more pro living then maybe you could find pro living and more positive things in everything, and get your act together more quickly after each let down. Everything ain't letdowns. There's a lot of fun things too, I think. If there ain't no fun things at all ever and there never will be any good time fun things, then, we'd use the word fun for something else and maybe call breathers from letdowns fun, but like I said, there's too much real fun so don't kill yourself please, O.K.? I mean over your love ... It's a good reason I think ... To avoid the pain of loss... but if we just hold on a little while before actually doing it, well ... I held on and found other reasons to live. MikeJeffersBorn1953
But pity is a drug... It gives you an immediate "lift", before it pushes you STRAIGHT to the bottom! Don't get caught in that trap!
Worry about yourself and self-improvement. It will only make you feel better about yourself and look better in the eyes of other potential mates. And for god sakes, don't carry this baggage with you. I understand your heart is aching, but moving on is all you can do now.
I can most definatley simpathize with what you're going through I had my heart ripped from my chest and spat on before it really hurts and i'm so sorry that you have to deal with that. In my case this person stung me along for almost 4 years and I was SOOOO in love, all i thought about, dreamed about, wrote about, it was intense. But if you wait long enough things always work out, whether it is with that person imparticular or with somone else even more amazing. it worked for me... trust me it always works out in the end you just need to feel your feelings in order to grasp them.
