What do you do when you are trying NOT to masturbate?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Wicked Penetration, Mar 16, 2006.

  1. Wicked Penetration

    Wicked Penetration Member

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    My girl is not with me but I'll be seeing her in about a month and a half. I'm tired of masturbating but I can't help myself... I usually do it 1 or 2 times a day, and on occasion 3 times.

    But for some reason I want to just STOP masturbating, and wait out the month and a half so when I have sex with her, it'll be utterly intense. I sometimes feel jacking off so often puts a damper on the sex.

    Or do you think I'm thinking too much, and masturbating 1 time a day is fine? lol

    Indesisive, I am.
     
  2. Lodog

    Lodog Senior Member

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    Why? If you quit taking advantage of yourself, when you DO get in bed with her you'll last all of 2 seconds. She probably wouldn't wanna see scar tissue on your dick thouh so I'd cut down.

    On the Scene with a magazine... nothing wrong with that.
     
  3. Xac

    Xac Visitor

    maybe slow down a little bit... once a day is plenty... 3 in my opinion is probably too much... im not a doctor...
     
  4. SageDreamer

    SageDreamer Senior Member

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    Maybe thinking of something else might help.
     
  5. Pmeth

    Pmeth Member

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    same prob with me i do it 1 , 2 twice or even 3 times a day.
     
  6. RavenTheDarkAngel

    RavenTheDarkAngel Member

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    Yeah but you're at the age Pmeth. How old are you Wicked Penetration? I think it's fine if you're younger in your teenage years but other than that what ARE you doing all day long? If you don't want to do it get some kind of hobbie or something or place yourself in a populated atmopshere and then you can't do it at all. But the thing is if you think about not doing it, that's when you want to do it more.

    Besides like Lodog is right about you probably not lasting too long. You'll be way to exited then, I think. If you really want to wait why not just not do it a few days before you see her again or maybe a week. But I think waiting that long it just too long. You're only goona make yourself crazy. :)
     
  7. DejaVoo

    DejaVoo stardust

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    well, i usually just give in and do it :) but, maybe like a week or so before she comes back, try to barely do it. but maybe until then, jus do it? lol.
     
  8. Green

    Green Iconoclastic

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    Takes 48 hours to completely refill I think, and after like 3+ days you'll just get a greater and greater urge to do it.

    So just masturbate regularly, like once a day, and don't worry about not doing it, and then two days before she gets back stop and wait, and then it'll be intense (but short probably).

    You don't want to hear what a doctor would say about 3 times a day.
     
  9. fountains of nay

    fountains of nay Planet Nayhem!

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    have a spliff and read a book instead!
     
  10. Sasssss

    Sasssss Member

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    You just have too much time on your hands. I think that when masturbating becomes one of your hobbies its now an obsession. I'm guessing and its only a guess so please don't get upset, but I'm guessing that you are feeding your obsession to masturbate by looking at Porn all day. If that's the case you already know the answer.

    Something to think about you don't have to reply:
    If you are masturbating 3 times a day, day after day are you and your girlfriend having sex 3 times a day, day after day? Also even when your girlfriend is around are you still masturbating a lot?
     
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