Abortion experiences

no one is trying to impress you......please don't flatter yourself.

you say you've never heard of a women happy with her decision....well now you have. so congrats to you.

 

believe me ... i find none of this impressive or flattering.

ending a life without any remorse is callous.

 

oh please. not regreting the decision is NOT the same as not feeling remorse. *dont confuse the two.*

having said that, you are in no position to guess what i do or do not infact feel in relation to my experiance. i feel no regret as i've said.........i never said i felt no remorse.

perhaps i need "saving"

 

I cant wait until abortion is illegal.

 

this thread needs to be closed.

 

i dont get it. You dont regret it, but you're sad about it.

:H

 

no you obviously dont get it.........

 

well, care to explain yourself or do you just wanna keep dancing?

 

no im not interested in "explaining myself" to you. i have nothing to prove to you. as i've said if anyone had anything more in depth they wanted to know about my experiance they can pm me.

 

This young woman is asking for help. I have been there. What a bad time to go through. I imagine she goes to high school, and if she did keep the baby, she unfortunately may have to be pregnant and deal with the other students talking non-stop about her. She has an abortion, and there goes the rumor mill again. You need to make the decision that is right for you, but please know there are usually 3 options when you find out youre pregnant-adoption, keeping the baby and abortion. Please weigh all the options and make an informed decision from YOUR heart. Whatever decision you make, have no regrets; KNOW it was the right choice for you. Please let us know how you are doing.
Carly

 

if you have nothing to hide and feel "110" percent satisfied with your decision, and dont regret it, (yet for some reason feel remorse all at the same time) then pming is not necessary in this case.

i am just curious what you could be remorseful about if you have no regrets and are so very happy with what you did, cause it makes no sense to me, that's all. If you cant explain it, maybe someone else can.

 

"So very happy" doesnt describe how i feel. im not jumping up and down like "yay i had an abortion - it was so fun - you all should try it-" i made the right desicion and never had doubts that what i did was the right desicion THUS i am completely satisfied with my decision. no regrets. there are many emotions involved its not black and white.

its a really personal and sensitive subject and the way you are coming at me about it isnt cool - so if you are so "curious' than perhaps someone else CAN explain it for you. although i dont really see what is so complicated about understanding that someone can feel remorse and yet not feel regretful.

infact why dont you talk to one of the many women who are happy with their choice? maybe they can explain.

 

This is NOT an abortion debate. All posts which are OT (not relating to abortion experience) will now be deleted.

 

well, 110 percent means you are MORE than completely satisfied, which would lead me to believe you're pretty happy about it.

it's only a sensitive subject because it's wrong. If it was right, it wouldnt even be an issue. I am only asking questions, and only because i dont understand, that's what people do when they dont understand things.

i thought i WAS asking one of the many women who are happy with thier choice.

Maybe no one has an answer for a question such as this.

So i will ask another question.

can you tell me why you are happy with the decision? There has to be answers to that one.

 

:H alrighty then.

 

ok i get it...this place is one sided, and if someone from the other side asks too many questions they get a ban threat.

edit: oh now i see you deleted your ban threat.

*sigh*

i wish people made sense in here.

 

No, Those who go Off Topic, DESIPTE being warned THREE TIMES get banned. Has nothing to do with "this place" being one sided.

Made a mistake, while having to delete about 5000 of your posts! I DID make a ban threat.. Now I carried it out.

People, please continue the thread where it was before you all were so rudely interrupted.

From the Guidlines. which YOU agreed to, when you decided to post here:

 

Not meaning to be off topic (sorry)...but....
Do you see what the issue of abortion does to people? It's pretty reasonable to say that people are very divided about the issue of abortion and feel passionately one way or the other. We should love each other, no matter what decision that person makes, wasn't the counterculture about not judging and loving each other and peace?
Carly

 

I was recently faced with this decision. My boyfriend and I accidentaly got pregnant and I was on the pill at the time....in no way did either one of us want this baby. He brought up the idea of abortion and I thought long and hard about it. I still think hard about it. The more I think about it, the more I feel torn. I say, make up YOUR mind. Let your mom know the situation, and, of course, the baby's dad. Listen to their opinions, but it's your body....so YOU decide the final decision. It doesn't matter WHO likes it. It's your baby box, your body, your choice.

 

Really? Why was my one post deleted? Is this thread only for those who've chosen abortion, not those who've considered abortion and chosen life?