Ok so i have been basically partying all long weekend. Lots of Jack Daniels and Vodka and Beer. Anyway i hooked up with a chick i have liked for 4 yrs and everything seems different after all those nights we spent 2gether. Pot which was once one of the things i treasured seems totally unimportant. (And this is coming from one of the maddest stoners u will ever meet) It feels weird... I'm letting it go as fast as i picked it up. I feel like i could be doing way more important things right now. She smokes weed occasionaly and i have done shrooms with her before. I'm confused, i just dont know any more. Mabye this will b the last time i visit the forum, and then again mabye it wont. I don't really know what else to say....feel free 2 post some comments or simmilar experiences
i tink i know what you mean. my boyfriend said ever since he met me, he 'changed' or watever. like he said he used to do more harder drugs and not care about anything. and he used to be like a total total pothead, but he feels ever since he met me, he has more important things to do....thats so sweet, but im like "but hunney, yer still gonna smoke with me , right?" i mean, ive realized there are more important things to do besides getting stoned...but i mean, of course, when i have nothing better to do, or i forgot the other things im suposed to do, nothing like getting stoned
where you stoned when you thought of all this? because if u were that would be kind od ironic i guess haha. - i say u just smoke occasionally with her but dont totally just stop all the way. peace~
i still dont get why you stopped smoking even when she smokes too...i mean if she didnt then i would understand but you got me puzzled
Good luck brother.. We've all been there... One day your at the beach, partying and thinking you've seen it all... next minut your changing dipers, and realizing that kids, family, and love is the most mind blowing experience in the world... Yes, even more than acid and shrooms... some of us return, many don't... but the only thing you need to remember, and its the most imporant thing anyone can tell you is... Do what makes you happy... and be well. Peace Socratez
Good post I can see why people leave their ways for relationships and families, but not me. Ill be here smoking.
if you get into a relationship and suddenly dont need drugs again, seems to me that the only reason you did drugs in teh first place was caus you were bored n lonely (regardless of what you think you life was like)
Hey Bill: Not necessarily... I think its normal that people shrug off certain interests and peruse other interests during the course of their lives... We all know lots of people who hookup, then they just kind drift off... Now, their not really giving up their friends, drugs, or anything else... they are just head over heals for someone, and nothing else matters... Sooner or later, they just kinda appear in our lives again.. and its normal.. When I took my very long break from smoking, and psycadelics, it wasn’t just for a girl... it was that I focused on other things in my life at that time.. (i.e. we got married, and started a family)... I just had much more important things to focus on back then... I stopped smoking etc, not because I wasn't bored anymore.. but because it was what I felt was the right thing to do (as I wanted to focus on my kids etc)... Now, the kids are older.. they prefer Xbox to us... so hey, we'll puff up now and then... and life just changed again... 10 years from now it will be different again for all of us.. Now, mind you... even though I'm saying this is a good thing ston3r, what I have seen, and think really blows... is when a guy gives up things he enjoys (weather drugs, partying, friends, sports, etc)... because his girlfriend/wife wants/demands him to. I've had friends stop for the wrong reasons... But I think Stonr3r is just happy, and doing it freely... peace soc