please help:shall i send this??

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  1. eve2504

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  2. Mrs.H

    Mrs.H Something Witty

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    Oh sweetheart, I wanna move in with you after that!!! God yes, send it! If this doesn't move him, I don't think he is worth your stressing.

    I hope he comes to his senses. Most guys just don't understand what they have, they want to go out and conquer. I hope that this guy is a good one, and that this outpouring of emotion grabs him by the heart-strings and brings him back to you.

    That is so sad... I am thinking of you. Please let me know how it goes?

    Good luck!
     
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    he is a good guy,heart of gold but also a traveler. and he gives up,when things get difficult. he said,he was gonna call,if he hasnt until tuesday,ill send it. but im so scared of his answer.i dont know how to do this,if he doesnt come back!
    ill let you know whats happening. thank you so much for your interest. it means a lot to me.
     
  4. Mrs.H

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    Trust me. It is better to send it and get a definite answer than to not send it and always wonder what could have happened if you did.

    I'm trying to send him "come back where you belong" vibes...

    ;)
     
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    i hope everything turns out for you hun! that email brought a tear to my eye! you really do deserve hapiness hun x
     
  7. parnell

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    strong stuff indeed - i dont know if id counsel to send it - i know i would - but then im a clueless romantic who's been burned by the only two chics i loved..... and am not doin too hot with nr. 3 right now (ok ok so i don't love her......yet)
     
  8. hippie_chick666

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    Why don't you send it? He's not going to know how you feel until you tell him. Or write him another letter/ email, send that and save this one for later.

    Good luck hun!~

    Peace & Love
     
  9. Mrs.H

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    Sweetheart, I would love to be your friend through this. Please PM me and keep me updated! Anything I can do to help I will! You aren't a problem at all. Everyone needs another perspective on things now and then. I'm glad to help.

    June is not all that far away too... Are you able to talk to each other during the wait? Stay in his mind, but don't be on his case every waking moment.

    Just be sure he knows how you feel.

    Please, please, please PM me and keep me informed. I would be more than happy to be a sounding board for you to vent to, or even bounce your thoughts off of.

    [​IMG]
     
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    I would not send it. Especially if he can just go gallavanting overseas without a backward glance, he does not feel the same about you. No man is worth the amount of anguish and torture you are going through right now. Give it up, get on with your life. Someday he'll realize what he lost, and maybe he'll come back. But if he knows you are waiting for him, there's no hurry is there?
     
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    i dont.but what do i know. hes not going overseas either. we live in germany and hes planning on coming back.
    im sorry.i feel like i have to protect my hope.its silly i know.
     
  14. Mrs.H

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    I still say even if you think you know how he would respond, sending it and finding out for sure will put your mind at ease. You'll KNOW that way.
     
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