Ok, maby this is a bit childlish, but... When you're sure that you love somebody, can you be sure about the reasons WHY do you love him? Ok, the problem is: I'm going out whit this guy for few months now, and I'm sure that i love him, but, when he asked me "why do you love me?" I just didn't know what to say. I said lots of stupid suff, and i regret it now, but, the problem is that i stil don't know why do i love him! Do you must have a reason to love somebody?
just tell him. im in love and i dont know why or how it happened. all you can know is that being with that person makes you feel amazing, and you find everything about them amazing. love isnt "i like your hair a lot" or "your funny." love is not supposed to be put in words; just keep that in mind.
i think the most important thing to love about a person is simply who he or she is and how he or she relates to others- and also, that you love him or her because you care so much. i love my family for simply who they are- goofy, but nothing else feels more right than being around them, and i love my best friend because, as dietcoketree said, being around him makes me feel amazing and i love watching him interact with people because he cares so incredibly much about every person he talks to- and you can tell.
So tell him that! "Loving you has got me so outta-whack that I can't even think straight!" or "What I feel for you is so strong I don't even need reasons to justify it!"
I can't describe the feelings but I can put into words alot of the reasons why. Most of them are silly little things, but they're what makes me look at him and feel sure I love him. Things he does, things he says, the way he looks and the way he looks at me. It's tiny things like when he goes to work in the morning he makes me a cup of tea and leaves it on the bedside table to drink when I wake up, or when he makes mr a packed dinner when I go to my evening class he leaves a note under the sandwiches. Silly things!
