Is anyone in a relationship here and prefer masturbating? Personally i find it hard to make myself orgasm by myself, but when im having sex with someone i find it REALLY easy to orgasm. My boyfriend seems really interested in sex and pornos etc, but doesnt want sex that often, sort of more like once a week. I try to initiate it more often, but its hard when the other person isnt interested!! So i was talking to a guy and he said he prefers masturbating to having sex with his girlfriend, and i thought maybe thats whats happening with my boyfriend. See he won't talk to me about doing it. I dont really know if he does or when or how many times? I dont find myself to be boring, i like watching porn with him, i buy toys, send him photos of me in lingerie and stuff.. i dont just lie there either, i do get into it. Anyone else had this experience? Love Amanda
sex in my relationship is sort of another way of showing our mutual affection...Ever since i've been with my boy, i havent masturbated, (perhaps once about two months ago). In physical terms I'd rather have sex than masturbate, you get bored after knowing all the tricks!!! to be honest I dont feel THAT interested in sex now, compared to a few years ago when all i wanted to do was bonk.
Hey For a guy, its not that masturbation is better then sex, its just something us guys do. Every guy out their masturbates weather he sais he does or not, evenw hile having a girlfriend. Its just something we do. It is not anything your doing wrong or anything of that sort, its just something different that we feel we have to do. I personally dont like boinking all the time when I have a girlfriend. I like to know its more about an actual relationship then having sex. Like at first for the first few months its crazy going and going and going but after that I like to slow down... i read somewhere that its a psyche thing with the male that we do it but dont mean to do it. When we first get with a girl we dont know how long we are going to be with them thus we go like crazy but after it has all settled down and we know we have them and know we can get it when we want we start having less just because. Not saying that some guys dont want it every second of every hour of every day, everyone is different though. I tend to just prefer to do it a few times a week with my girl. I also do this because I tend to notice that they want to break up if i dont give it to them all the time. I dont find this to make a healthy relationship myself. Thats why I like it like that and I know the relationship is alot more pure when sex isn't an issue, and the girl doesn't start crying and saying I dont love her anymore just because she isn't gettin any from me. (That kinda bs will make me leave um instantly lol) Is he worried about getting you pregnant? I know this is another reason I dont like to have sex that often. I am always constantly worrying about getting my girls pregnant and thus not wanting to have sex as much... Maybe you could try this. You say you guys do it only once a week, well next time he tries, tell him you dont feel like it. Don't make it out to seem like your cheating on him or anything just tell him your not in the mood. Maybe try it for two weeks as well and see where it gets you. If it makes you go two weeks without sex and he doesn't pick up after that, I apologize as to you not gettin any for two weeks!
Coming from someone who hasn't had in a long time and does masturbate, I find it hard that masturbation is better than sex.
hey im open to all thoughts and thanks drewbee!! i think he is pretty scared about having a kid with me Love Amanda
