what was your first sexual experience like?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Nisha, Jul 25, 2004.

  1. Nisha

    Nisha Forlorn.

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    what was your first sexual experience like? was it romantic? how old were you and were was it? dd you bother to use protection?


    mine was.. in a laundry room... rather spontanious... unprotected... scary but special... and sacred.
     
  2. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    My first sexual experience was terrible. I was 16, he was 22, we had been seeing eachother for eight months. Little did I know he was selfish in bed and although it was painful (us women know this!), he kept going at it and not being sensitive to that fact. I ended up bleeding for a week afterward (not the ragging kind either!). We did it in his bed and we used protection. STAY A VIRGIN...or at least just have sex with a chick...
     
  3. ms_charisma

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    Well, i was 15 and he had just turned 16, it was New Years Eve 2000, well actually it was 4 in the morning on new years day and we had been together for 8 months, it was fairly romantic, we had talked about it a few times, decided we werent ready, but then at the party we were at i said i think im ready!


    so when we got home we tried it hahha, it sorta hurt, but still felt good
    it was great. i know i wont regret it

    Love Amanda
     
  4. Mojambotamtams

    Mojambotamtams Member

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    I was fifteen and he was seventeen... we had been dating for eight months. We skipped school for the last two hours because it was the last day before a break of ours and all we were doing was watching movies and eating cake. We drove around in the country, trying to find a place to park, but, being winter, all of the parking places were full of snow and we didn't want to get stuck. Not being able to find a place we went to our last resort... the cemetary to his dad's church. WE parked the van in the driveway, folded down the back seats and steamed up the windows.

    It was his first time too... we comforted each other the entire time, making sure everything was feeling alright, expressing how everything felt when done, ect. It was the most beautiful thing we had ever experienced up to that point. I spent the night at his home that night and we slept in each other's arms... ::sigh:: smashing.:)
     
  5. Alomiakoda

    Alomiakoda Boniface McSporran

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    I was 15...he was 20...we used protection...


    It hurt a lot but luckily only lasted about 2 minutes :p


    We'd been together for about 3 months...I can't really say it was anything special...The first time with my current boyfriend was much more special and important to me... I've had a lot more meaningful experiences with him.


    Of course it didn't help that the first guy dumped me over MSN the day after the event... ¬_¬
     
  6. Nisha

    Nisha Forlorn.

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    Yeah mine dumped me on MSN too like one or two days after.. but i'm glad it happened because i was thinking to do that anyways.. it was just very heart breaking
     
  7. sonador_hermosa

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    i was too young for him and he was too old for me, and he was all about what he wanted (only ever went down on ME once the whole time we were together, which was about 9 months but always expected ME to go down on him..grrr). and it was painful, bloody, and not very satisfying...i had always been able to bring myself to orgasm, but i didn't ever have one from another person til about 2 years ago...now i'm with my fiance, and have multiple orgasms each time...i think it depends on how much you love the person you're with. i wasn't in love with the guy i had my first sexual experience with...so it sucked balls.
     
  8. HappyHaHaGirl

    HappyHaHaGirl *HipForums Princess*

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    I was 16 and it sucked and he was an asshole and I wish it had never happened. :mad:
     
  9. Butters

    Butters Senior Member

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    I haven't had it yet, but I want it to be with someone I love. It sure sounds like it makes the experience so much better. I want it to be real romantic and all, I like that.
     
  10. seamonster66

    seamonster66 discount dracula

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    I was 17, I think she was 15. it was in the daytime in my bedroom and very short:D
     
  11. most_naughty_hippie

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    I was 15 and he was... about 17. We weren't really dating, we were close but we liked each other alot. After his band concert we drove over to his house but we stopped on the way in this deserted place. We went in the back seat and then we just started making out.. that lead to oral then... I asked him to push it in. It was painful because his tool was huge but he was really gentle. It was the most beautiful thing. But without condoms.
     
  12. shoelaceknots

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    I was 16 he was 22.....wow...someone else had that same age experience! lol
    I had just gotten off of work and had planned to stay the night with him. He lived with (his 2 year old daughter,) his ex and her fiancee. Everyone was in bed, but him and i ALWAYS stay up late, together or not...and i was very comfortable and decided i was completely ready to give my virginity up to him. I was on top of him and we were playing around and laughing..nothing sexual with the playing around. I looked at him and just said "you know what, i think we should.." so, we did! We had been together for about 2 months then. We're still together, and something tells me we're gonna get married in the future....our relationship has grown stronger and stronger, and we're finally going to be living with eachother, in our OWN place soon.

    I don't regret it, and i never will. I'm glad ther's actually a guy out there that respects females as much as he does.and has so much in common with me......and get this....an added bonus, he's drop dead georgous, and HILARIOUS...and TALENTED with music and such.
     
  13. sweetval

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    I guess you mean intercourse.


    Mine was great. Scary but great. he was BIG 9 1/2 in and THICK
    2"

    I had made this date with full knowledge that I was going to lose my virginity. I had some sexy undies from VS and the key to my girl friends uncle hunting cabin.

    He started off gentle and shallow and gradually went deeper. My hymen broke and I had pain and winced, but soon i wanted more. I opened up and he gave me all he had, hard and deep. later he did me doggie style.

    From what other girls had said about their first time, I think that I did fantastic. I gave him a blow job that night too and then he went down on me which was the first time I had ever received oral sex.
     
  14. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    I was 16, he was 15. We'd been dating for 5-6 months and I was horny as hell, lol. The first time was meh, he came in like 30seconds. But 10min later he was ready to go again, and I had my first (and only) orgasm during intercourse. I loved him a lot at the time, we used condoms, and I don't regret it at all
     
  15. greeneyedbaby

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    It was on my fifteenth birthday, with I guy I was (and still am) madly in love with.
    It was with my current boyfriend, and it wasn't particularly romantic I would say.
    In broad daylight in my room, my mom in the room next door, and the setting and surroundings were not at all what I hoped for, but in the end all that mattered was that it was with someone I was in love with.
    It wasn't even painful.
    I used a dildo before I had sex for the first time.
    I "discovered" sex and sexuality really early.
    Oh, and we used protection, but nto condoms, I was on birthcontrol pills.
     
  16. mebesideme

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    Well, if you mean when I lost my virginity, it was awkward and confusing, but very loving and memorable, the perfect way to lose my virginity. I was in the back seat of a classic corvette in my girlfriends darkened garage at a new years party. Neither of us came, but we had a very moving experience that was beyond words. The memories of that are too wonderful ever to put into words. I can only feel and sort of see the memory, and know what absloute trust and love is like. It was just great. Certainly perfect timing and location, as out of location as it felt at the time.
     
  17. MEltingpOpsicle3

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    I was 15 when i first had sex and he was 17, I was completly in love with the kid so we decided we were both finally ready. we did it in his basement, with the lights off and the tv was on. We were very quite about it and i remember he was on top. Thank god it didn't last to long because i was in so much pain. My first time defintly was't what i expected but i don't regret it at all.
     
  18. FallenFairy

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    mine sucked. i was with my bf and my three cousins and aunty we were at a campsite with my auntys friend and her two daughters. my aunty and her frined left to go gamble. we had a shit load of alchohol and we got trashed. well i went in to the tent to pass out and right outside like five feet away my oldest cousin was puking. well my bf comes in and he starts groping me and then he puts his dick in me. i screamed and my cousin (the one whos was puking) ran in saw what was going on ripped my bf off of me threw him outside kicked him a few times then came back into the tent and layed with me and we both passed out . so in a way it sucked and in another it was special,cuz if that would have never happened to me then i would have never knew how much my cousin cares for me and stands by my side one hundred percent.
     

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