Does your orgasm usually trigger your partner's? That is, do you think that they feel your orgasm and that usually sets them off if they're close enough? Has it happened with more than one of your partners and does the thought that they can feel you come make you sort of horny about it?
My orgasm has frequently set off my partner's. My orgasms are kind of long and drawn out and one guy told me that when I kept groaning and groaning during my orgasm that he would look at my face all contorted and that and my sounds would just make him lose it where he couldn't hold back anymore and he'd start to moan too and empty his load into me. If a guy is fairly big, my vaginal contractions will really grip his dick fairly hard, kind of 'milking' it, and that can make his orgasm start. Yeah, it is sexy that my orgasm can set his off (or vice-versa)- that's the best way to come-together.
has a guy ever stopped moving just before you came, maybe trying to hold off, and then you started coming almost right then? did that make him start coming, too? (please check your PM, I left a message there...)
Oh, yeah, definitely. A lot of times my orgasm would set his off, even if he was trying to hold back.