I need to become a better communicator

i've come to realize that when im in the middle of a real long rant, i seem to lose my train of thought really easily. on the internet, its easy cause i can take my time and sort it all out. unfortunatly its not that easy when your talking face to face or on the phone with someone im also not that great of a listener...especially on the phone. if i get into a position where my fate depends on a certain phone call, then im doomed (and it most likely will in the next month or two)

 

at least you don't stutter ...

 

ya got a point there...but maybe if i stuttered more, then it'd give me time to sort out my thoughts instead of trying to get em all out in one solid motion.

i keep on saying my thoughts, but half way through they dont make much sence, but people just say "oh, right, ok...", and dont talk to me about it anymore its something new that i need to work on

 

yeah well same thing for me ...

 

when talking to people i hardly know i tend to hold back because i don't want to end up saying something really stupid or having to repeat myself.i also hate telling stories cuz i suck at thoseand also get so excited and tell all the nonimportant details.
i think i just need to loosen up more.

 

LoL i have this disease called Word Vomit.. when I try to explain things, it never comes out right, it just comes out in this big huge jumbled mess that leave people looking at me like "what the fuck" but then sometimes Im really good with my words (the writer in me )


its all good tho pauly, not many ppl are good communicaters

 

Well, you're ranting, you're not debating rationally. If you were debating rationally you would have already put some thought into what you are trying to say. So what the fuck difference does it make how well you communicate?

 

People should speak more eloquently online.

 

Come again?

 

Yeah I always for get to tell my roomate when he got a call and I always for get phone numbers.

 

man. i cant talk for a long time... i always choke on my words, im a thinker, and i write my thoughts... but words out of my mouth just seem to have less of an impact on the people around.

 

My verbal skills are excellent


*wanders off*

 

Lmao