If you're another sign you're not a Capricorn..

If you you are of another sign, how do you find Capricorns?
And if you are Capricorn, what are the difficulties you find relating to the rest of the zoodiac, and what do you like about being one?

 

Well, I only (for the most part) am aware of living with/or associating with Tauruses, Cancers, and Aquariuses. I guess I'll break it down from there.

Taurus--Happens to be my sister. We have very different points of view. She's very outgoing, vibrant and has many friends. I have very few (if any) and am shy (or tend to be). She loves going out, and I prefer staying home. She believes anger, violence and rebellion is the best way to live. Rebellion, to an extent, I believe works, but I prefer peace and nonviolence. She loves the dark side of things and believes in mythological creatures with dark origins (vampires, werewolves, ghosts) and she's a Wiccan, too. I like mythology but don't really believe in it and am an Atheist.

Cancers---My mother and my boyfriend. My mother is a bit conservative, religious (a tad bit hard-core Catholic) and a modern, working woman with some traditional views. We agree on many things, but not on everything. We tend to fight over religion and how kids should be raised. I don't agree with her punishments and often end up enduring them and never really understand her much. She gives out trust easily (I do the same if I feel I'll gain something in the end) but crawls back into her shell when that trust is broken. Unlike my boyfriend, my mother is very optimistic and mostly positive. She's very family oriented (again, unlike my boyfriend). My only problem with my boyfriend is his negative nature. I'm also negative by nature by try my best to avoid it when possible.

Aquarius--My grandmother and brother. They both are similar in some ways. My brother wants to become a nurse and save people (like myself) and both grandma and him are very much traditional in some ways and value education very much (also like myself) My brother tends to be very talkative, which is a problem for me since I do not talk much when I am around him. He also plays the game to his advantage by sticking to his mother. He also is very negative when around me or my sister, which is something we have troubles with


As to what I like about my sign? I suppose the ambition is the best thing I like about my sign. It certainly helps get me through and it's helped me discover my goals and what I need in a job. It's also helped my become an expert at what I enjoy the most and helps me pass school with some great grades. I might add or subtract from this thread later, but this is all I can think of to say..

 

What do you enjoy the most? and what are you best at?

I too enjoy my ambition although sometimes it can be overwhelming.

 

I actually find it really hard to relate to others. I'm a Capricorn to the bone- complete with seriousness, overbearing ambition, drive, and focus.

But I'm also crazy moody and have a tendancy to get depressed.

I find it hard to do anything without planning. It's even hard for me to go out at night with friends if they call me up even an hour before I have to go out. It's something I've tried to overcome but I have to make lists, make plans, and do research about everything.

Most people just don't get that. I put a ton of pressure on myself as well, especially in academics, that most people also don't understand. I'm still beating myself up about not being able to have the SAT scores to go to an Ivy League school. I'm still going to a great college next year, but it bothers me intensely that it's not in the top 10. Most people find it really hard to relate to that.

 

Poor baby. Poor, poor baby.

Dumb ****.

 

Wow I can relate to that. At 19 I thought it was freaky and felt there was something specially wrong with me since everyone was more spontaneous and care-free. Years later reading in an astrology book I found out that is the way the stars compell us to be and it is exactly where we need to be.

 

i think it is odd that i am a capricorn in that i am not responsible at all. anytime i start something i never finish it. i am a very go-with-the-flow kind of person, i hate planning ahead. i lack effort it about anything i do. even the things i love the most i never stick with for too long. however, i am very practical. i also take failure twice as hard as most people when its something i actually really tried for.
my best friends are leos and i think we communicate the best. i however mostly relate to taurus, cancer, and aquarious.

how to recognize one? well they usually have dark hair and dark complexions. also, if u are at a party, she will usually be the one standing alone examining the crowd.

 

I have a thousand unfinished projects, not to mention my floor and just about everything....could be because we wanna try evrything?

At least I do.

 

Ditto. I normally have about 10 books going at once. Right now I also have 3 separate knitting projects going.

My boyfriend is an Aries and that is really bad most of the time. Seriously, we're compleeeete opposites. We have a good relationship until money or responsibilities come up. If I ever get married, I seriously have to marry another Capricorn or a Taurus because otherwise I have a hard time of making it work.

 

I never finish things, i like being alone, but i love taking things to the limit, (when exercising, staying awake, working.... caps have amazing stamina, trust me. we are a bit slow in the begining, but we usually win in the end).
Caps are seen as boring, quite often, just because they are not as open as other. But many of them, deep down, have a deep sense of humour.... Caps get nice once they can laugh at themselves....
For years i was ashamed to say that i was I cap. I still am, a bit, just because, many people consider us like as stiff, frigid, boring, ambitious, capitalistic, money seeking, status seeking cold hearted.... They made us .... the scape...GOAT!!!!!!!!!!...........
Being a cap can make you to an ashole, OR, if you decide to CHOOSE concsiously the positive (but not the easy) way, people will understand us and feel that we are very sensitive, deep deep down....

 

i like it cause its like.. im laid back and highly intellectual.. and i believe that attracts the kind of people i like.

 

Put up an ad at work or play.

Otherwise you'll be stuck trying to find out if a person has a lot of Saturn influence in their charts.

 

I know what you mean. My girlfriend is an Aries. We fight about everything, but I don't know. It just seems to always work itself out. Love always finds a way.

 

well my sun aint capricorn but ive got 5 planets there..
hahaha im the grumbling grudge..

 

I think Capricorn's have to have the most ridiculous sign of all. Why is a half-goat half-fish supposed to be ambitious?

At any rate I don't think I fit the whole Capricorn thing at all. I'm not one for money, I shirk most responsibilities at the first chance I get. I'm not very constant in any of my hobbies, I'm far from serious in most everything I do and I have an absolute hate for planning out my days, trips, goals ect. Authority can just keep on truckin' because they won't get a warm reception at my house. I don't worry about much of anything and failure doesn't bother me (which is good I guess or else all those rejections from ever job I have ever applied for would probably be giving me some stereotypical "Capricorn Depression".) As for things being neat and ordered...well the simple way of putting it is Order freaks me out. The only thing I can argee with is I have a pretty good memory.

Though now that I think about it I was supposed to be born in December. Maybe I'm just a late Sagittarius.