Privacy...uh...issues

My girlfriend and I love to indulge in sensuous kiss every now and then but that's only on dates, when we are alone. She lives around 30 miles away so I'm lucky if I get to see her once a week due to school etc. but the thing is BOTH our parents are home 24/7!!! Granted, I don't want a full on orgy, but I always fantasized that we would have a house to oursleves for few hours to watch movies, snuggle etc. without parents hawking us....any suggestions?

-Thanks

 

... you're 18, right?

... why don't you try asking your parents to give you and her a few hours alone?

That solves most problems.

If they say no ... murder them in their sleep. Or, alternatively, get a hotel room for a night, or perhaps you have a friend who owns his own apartment? If not ... start making some friends!

 

get your own place.

 

Yeah we're both 18 but my parents will go ape shit if they left me alone with a girl and I think her parents feel the same way. Kinda ridiculous considering we're both 18 but we have no choice. umm hotel room...not our style. friends place could work but that throws the long distance problem back into play. It's hard to plan things on such short notice, esspecially if I need to ask to use my parents car. Drives us crazy!!!

 

Do it in the back seat of the car like they did it in the 'good old days'. I've certainly done it. If you've got a big ass car like my ex used to have, the back seat was as big as the friggin' bed.

 

Neither of us work so I can't afford to.

lol I was thinking that, except It's a Sazuki swift lmao and I'm not small (6'4, 240lbs) the back seat does fold down but it's still pretty uncomfortable.

 

Wait until summer and go camping :-D

 

Camping eh....??? hmmmm... I can work with that *rubs hands together*

 

how far northwest are you?

 

I actually thought of that. But it's trial run past mother didn't go so well... Just gotta keep trying I suppose.

As for in the car... I think more bruises than enjoyment may come from trying anything in that cramped a space.

 

Camping can be nice and can be really romantic. I used to do it a lot with one of my exes. Don't camp near other people-find someplace in the middle of nowhere. Then you can yell "that's it baby, HARDER" and nobody but the friggin' squirrels will hear you. Camping's my vote.

 

Nortwest Oregon, Clatsop County

Yeah that's what I was thinking, plus I love squirrels!

 

hey it may sound cheap but i do this with my girlfirned when theres things going on at both houses and we just wanna be together alone..get a nice motel room or any motel room at that as long as its decent..youll have the whole night together and it has a feeling like you have your own place for a short period of time..good stuff =)

 

They don't make cars like they did in the 70s.

 

My boyfriend's car is from the seventies! Hehe. An Impala...though what year specifically, I can never remember. 'Tis a shame it's out of commission and our current transportation has been my little '89 Olds 2-door Calais...lol. Ho well. Car sex's never been my thing.

I agree with the camping idea, it seems harmless enough to parents' ears.

 

A 70s Impala?!? That's roomier than some motel rooms. That's roomy enough for some of the stuff mentioned in the Free Love threads.

 

Yeah, but neither of our parents would let us camp alone together. It still is a problem since both of our families are somewhat strict and protective.

 

Sell the Swift or trade it in on a mini van!, better yet I have a 95 Impala SS lots of room in them and not real slow either.

 

Well since then I got an extended cab pickup, but there is not that much more room, besides shes not to hot for the whole truck/car thing anyway.

 

oh man dude best times have been in back of a truck under stars in real dark open area like way up in the mountains. The view is killer and she will love it, just tell parents to kiss your ass your 18 damn if they dont think you did it they are being mental!

Sleeping bag, little food and drink some soft pillows and wella a night in heaven under them stars.