hi everyone. My new post in this forum. Im really vexed about what Im going to tell you, and I need advice. My boyfriend is young (25), very handsome, smart, and great as a man and a person: PERFECT. We have been together for 2 and a half years, and he has loved me very much. But he has tried to appeal himself before many girls at least on websites like myspace.com behind my back until I found him there, so I have learned to doubt his faithfulness and commitments. He will be away to the opposite side of the earth for about four months during the summer. As I said, he is truly handsome, tall, and athletic, so Im worried he might cheat on me. Dont you think such perfect, attractive men usually are cheaters? Think about Hollywood stars: they are great as people but also do get a lot of sexual encounters right? My boyfriend really does love me, but also likes women and sex too. What should I do? Im younger than him, and Im thinking if it would be ok for me to go dates with other guys while he will be gone, because he will be gone not because of work or anything that makes him having to do it, but because he is quitting the work and having a summer break.
I'm going to write the same thing I wrote in the other forum that you posted the exact same thing about: so basically, you don't want him to cheat on you, but you're going to go out with other guys while he's gone. LOL That's the stupidest thing I've heard in awhile.
well if he cheats on you that's his choice but i wouldn't sink to his level. i mean even if he does try not to think about it too much cuz then you'll get worked up and all that jazz, so my advice is don't think about it and don't sink to his level.