girls...first time sex and orgasm?....

this is likely going to get me severely flamed...but are there any of you girls out there who actually had an orgasm the first time you had sex (or maybe the second or third time)?

 

i think that would depend on the guy. my girlfriend came several times her first time because i knew my way around the female anatomy.

 

That was one of the main reasons that I came the first time and every time after that. Being with a guy that knows that female anatomy subject ain't the only factor in it, but it's a pretty big one. If I had been with a guy that was as inexperienced in the touch and rub department as I was, I don't think the results would have been nearly as good. I mean, hell he taught ME about what a woman's body could do-I wouldn't trade a guy like that for all the tea in China. Give me a female anatomy expert any day of the week.

 

Well, I can't lie... We were both very inexperienced, and we were more in an "I can't believe I am actually having sex!" mode. Neither of us did the first time. I'd say it was months before I did. It took quite some time for me to get used to him. But once I did, and we were able to have normal sex, things started happening for me.

 

I was just curious, because I have only conversed with a couple of girls who said they came the first time (and I mean literally two)...one of them was rubbing hersaelf at the same time, so it was pretty musch going to happen...the other girl said that it was actually a surprise (a very intense one, too)...

 

Yeah, well being brought up Catholic, I wasn't familiar with the whole masturbation thing back then. I was actually having sex before I ever started masturbating.

 

too bad...might have made those first few times a little more orgasmic...

 

Well, I wasn't rubbing myself at all my first time-I was skilled at masturbating though, and he was VERY skilled in really getting me worked up with a huge amount of gorgeous foreplay so that when he finally entered me, I wasn't far from orgasmland. And he was so good at the actual intercourse, knowing exactly how/when/where to thrust-God, so perfect. It was just TOO good. There ought to be a special medal for guys like that, like the Sexual Legion of Honor or something.

 

Well considering how long it took before we were even able to have penetration, masturbation would have been nice. It wasn't until my senior year in high school that I started masturbating, and even then it was something I felt I needed to hide.

 

Wow, you mean you were really taught not to masturbate and to feel guilty about it and all that?

 

Well, it was taboo, and yes I felt guilty even as a senior in high school when I started doing it. It took me years to feel ok about it, even after I realized it was a natural thing and ok to do.

 

even though i still dont masterbate, im not catholic or of any particular faith, i think it has a great deal to do with knowing what you supposed to be doing on both sides! i didnt still dont, niether does he! and finally last night i blew my top and told him that the past 25 years of sex have been totally for his benefit and crap as far as im concerned, god what have i done? so much for this communication thing,i wish id continued keeping my mouth shut now, let him do his thing, try and fiddle around get absolutely no where with me and then let him think it was just me, i could then have sorted myself out today with the bloody vib if i was that bad.

 

Did he cook you chicken wings from scratch? Were ya'll camping?