What do you do about a girl who doesn't like giving head?

Thank you! You should teach a class. Then again, some things cannot be taught, natural talent wins out.

 

Teaching a class would be loads of fun... literally!!!

 

I would be "up" for being the demonstratee in the class.

 

You think you could perform in front of an audience?

 

Why yes, I am quite sure of it.

 

There's nothing worst than a inhibited woman...ahhh BAH!! My take on it is, if you don't love them or on your way to that stage of feelings, cut'em loose. ONLY, and I STRESS ONLY after you vigorously attempted to change her mind.

 

^^^^what he said.^^^^


Look at HappyKel. Not only is she cute as hell but she WANTS to try it again on someone. That's not uncommon. A girl who doesn't go down.....is.

 

I don't feel the guilt trip thing works more than being honest. Telling her that you enjoy it so much to the fact you feel you have to leave the situation usually gets them.. IF they really dig you. Most women put up a freak front...lol. They like to ration out the freakiness to avoid appearing as a whore of some sort, but I let them know...you don't have to do that with me..lol.

The best thing a woman can do to hook me is be as NASTY as she can be...let's try to turn each other out. That's fun!

 

^^Listen to that dude.^^ If you send them on a guilt trip,they may end up doing it so you like them or keep them around. BUT they'll usually go tell their friends,"He makes me eat his cum when I really don't want to but I like him & I want him to like me!" next thing you know their friends start to think you're an asshole/abuser or whatever & will talk her into leaving you because you're making her do something she doesn't really want to.

As far as the chick rationing out the whoreness....'tis very true. lol. Most females won't have a problem experimenting or taking a cumshot to the face,swallowing your load, or eating your ass.......IF they love/trust you. But they ain't gonna do it the first time you fuck. Unless she truly is a whore. lol

 

Men will be boys....

 

Hey, guys. Let's say the girl does feel like giving oral would be degrading. Trying to guilt-trip her would just make YOU an asshat.

I personally hold back until I trust the fellow not to do something mean ... like gag me. Beat me, slap me, hit me across the face until I bruise and swell and bleed -- but DO NOT shove a dick down my throat until I gag. Just a personal preference ... I know some people love that, and that's cool, but it makes me vomit.

It also DOES feel a little degrading to me, so I wait until I feel as if my partner and I are on even ground. And I do not allow HIM to degrade himself (in a sense) to me before that point either.

My point? Give her time. She might be a girl like me, who's going to give you a nice surprise some day.

Or else be sort of silly and dump her.

 

That would settle it for me. Fair's fair, she gets her turn, you should get yours. I doubt it's a "whore complex", but if it is, it's seriously misplaced. She's already giving you the pussy, to my mind that's a more serious thing. A bj should not be a big deal.

Trying guilt or any other form of pressure is pointless, as (at least for me) there's no worse a passion killer than a reluctant partner. She should want to do it for you, just as you enjoy giving her that pleasure. I have to concur with others and say that if you're not in too deep, dump her.

 

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okay i kinda dont understand the whole.. if you fuck someone and you are good at it and want to make it good.. your a whore thing. If your fucking someone shouldnt you be comfortable with yourself to do whatever will makeyou and the person you are fucking feel good? This is in regaurds to the whole (unless she really is a whore) comment. If she is fucking you for the first time she she is fine but if she is eating your ass or being kinky while fucking you for the first time she is a whore :| Yeah makes no sense to me. ANYWAY.
i dont know what to really do about her though. If you love her and you two are close she will understand why you like it. Personally I find giving head very liberating. Men love it and I have the power! I give good head and can make them go " omg where did you learn that!" To me sex is empowering not degrading and that includes oral. I am totally comfortable with myself and my body and if i choose to hae sex with someone. I am going to do it well so we both are pleasured. Guess im a whore ..lol.. oh well i can live with that. lol

 

Ya know, there's a big differance between being a whore and being a slut. For example, when I piss in a slut's mouth I'm not out fifty bucks.

 

you cant do shit, if she doesnt want to give head then there shall be no head!

 

NOT trying to be shallow, but if you are open/honest and up front, then there should be no reson to hide what you want/need in a relationship ESPECIALLY when it comes to sex...

If I am with a woman, and I find out she wont give head, and/or at least CONSIDER ANAL...

CYA chica... like my grandfather used to say: "women are like buses son, another comes around every fifteen minutes"

I agree with him, if she wont, you dont need to bother trying to convinvce her, DUMP HER ASS and move on... I guess if you were to naive to believe you could change her, then you messed up and really need to make a decision tell her what your needs are NOW.. do not wait... tell her if you cant be with her... and ask her if there is anything you dont currently do for her that she wishes you did, because her needs matter too...

comitment is a two-way street, approach it with honesty, tell her what is "required' and make an informed decision... hell it may be one of the hardest you ever have to make...

 

Makes sense to me.

I didn't notice if you said her age, but if she's young she may warm up to it later in life.

You may get her to try it, but you can't make her enjoy it. And if she doesn't enjoy doing it, it'll never be that great anyway.

I don't think a woman should be talked into giving head. I want a women to give me head because she enjoys it, and wants to please me. That's what it's all about, isn't it? I think women that enjoy it do so becasue they like the reaction they get, and they like to please the guy they are with. I mean, as a guy, that's why I enjoy going down on women. I love the reaction that I get, and I love knowing I'm giving her pleasure, and if I can make her orgasm that way I feel great afterwards. I'm ready to call it a night right there.

And I don't see how the whole whore/slut thing has anything to do with it. Just because a women enjoys giving oral doesn't make her a slut or a whore.

Bottom line htough, if she's not into it, she's not into it. And you can't change that. If a girl who's into oral is important to you, time to move on.

 

Well, I discovered that the reason she doesn't want to give head is that she thinks it stinks down there - possibly both cock AND cum. She hasn't done it with me, mind you, but she had one relationship before me about 6-7 years ago and I guess she gave head then, and the guys must have smelled bad or something. Anyway, she hasn't had a relationship for several years and them met me, and things just went very well.

But she still seems very hesitant about sex... today we were talking on the phone, she asked how important I felt sex was in a relationship becaues we were talking about a TV show I saw on HBO about sex and relationships, and I said "125 percent!" and she said that that was the right answer, and she was happy - but for her it was 99 percent... and that 1 percent was because she wasn't sure about the oral LOL

So, yeah. We'll see I guess.

 

Advice from an old vet! DUMP her and marry one that loves it, or you'll never be satisfied with your sex life! Some chix won't do it, then they wonder why their man is running around trying to fuck their friend's faces!