Looking for love

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by hiro, Mar 31, 2006.

  1. hiro

    hiro pursue it

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    I use to think I was looking for the "one" then I thought I was looking for love. Now I am at the point that I am looking for something meaningful, its funny how things change as we go through experiences. I wonder how long it will take for me to find whatever it is I am looking for, I have plently of time and hate to think about time because it bogs me down.


    I guess what I am saying is I want that feeling again, and don't want it to some meaningless fling. I want something more and won't settle for less.
     
  2. Peanuts

    Peanuts Nutz

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    If you think about time the best way to avoid time is not to waist your time one the ones you know are not ultimately what you are looking for. :)
     
  3. hiro

    hiro pursue it

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    How true, I have wasted too much of my time :rolleyes: I am getting impatient with my life. I am on a plateau of shit right now. I want things to progress, I know be happy with what I have now and I am but I would like things to be different. I want to find more of what I want and less of what I am settling to have in my life, love is applicable to this statement.
     
  4. Mrs.H

    Mrs.H Something Witty

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    Trust me. You'll find what you are looking for in droves as soon as you quit looking...
     
  5. hiro

    hiro pursue it

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    Haha, what if I never stop looking :p I kid, I hear that alot but I wonder if it is true. I bet I will be giving the same advice to a youngen in ten years :p
     
  6. dhs

    dhs Senior Member

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    or end up like me still not looking/looking [​IMG] kidding. I'm sure someone great will come along in no time and sweep you off your feet
     
  7. andcrs2

    andcrs2 Senior Member

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    Strange...... what's the average time delay? *g*
     
  8. .Hannah.

    .Hannah. Member

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    You're looking too hard. Men can smell this. Be careful. Be happy being you. The rest will follow.
     
  9. gringo_in_caribbean0

    gringo_in_caribbean0 Member

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    hiro take a look at this
    Total Posts: 7,872 (11.36 posts per day) maybe less time looking at these fourms and more time out .

    like where you might meet real people.

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    dhs
    Total Posts: 6,627 (9.57 posts per day)

    kinda looking like a patteren
     
  10. hiro

    hiro pursue it

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    Bud I have been a member since I was 16. I don't think that is applicable to dating in the real world. So kiss my white ass :D
     
  11. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    Hiro, you'll find what you're looking for, when you're not actually looking. That's the best part of it. It always comes along when you least expect it.

    Oh and gringo...I have over 4,000 posts and I have a very happy social life AND a boyfriend...SO EAT THAT!
     
  12. Lodog

    Lodog Senior Member

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    Don't rush into anything. When you find it... you'll know.
     
  13. barefoot beautiful

    barefoot beautiful Member

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    i feel very much the same way...can't wait to find the one i want to marry and with whom i want to spend the rest of my life. and as a result, i get really frustrated with guys i couldn't see myself marrying ...wish they'd just go away and quit complicating my life. i want to get married, but i'm definitely neither desperate nor about to make a rushed decision no matter what the situation.
     
  14. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    you need not look because if you spend each and every moment in the now, you will reap the lessons, have the experiences, feel the connections that will indeed lead you to the man or life you want to be in.
    enjoy each moment for what it has to offer. loving yourself each step of the way, noticing the sunrise and sunset and one day as you are smokin a cig, watching the trees blow in the wind, you will look over and there will be the man you have been waiting for. stop looking and just live:)
     
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