I don't get anything from it...

I've had sex with my boyfriend and whenever we do it I don't get anything from it. And if I do it's just a little bit of pleasuse.

We've tried lot's of different positions...

Help!

 

has he tried going down on you till all were satisfied? Are you coaching to your optimal pleasure?

 

well most girls need 'clit' stimulation to orgasm. i do, too. usually if we do it doggy sytle, my b/f rubs my clit at the same time. or if we do it when im on his lap, facing AWAY from him, he also has easy access to that area. or, u can do it like he pulls u to the side of the bed and does u while standing up, and u cud masturbate yourself, too. or if yer on top, try rub yer clit on him so u can get some pleasure too. also, u gotta clear yer mind first. sometimes i cant enjoy sex if im wondering whats on my "to-do list" or something bad that happened to me earlier that day. concentrate on yer body and his and his pleasure and yers and what turns you on. fantazing.
feeling sexy.

well, hope this kind of helped. goodluck!

 

Have you asked him to kiss your pussy long enough before he enters you? You could try that. Make sure you get excited enough before you engage in the least important aspect of sex, namely the actual pumping.

 

I have the same problem and my bf doesnt really like to do anything thats foreplay he just goes right to penetration and 5 minutes later he is done and i am laying there half asleep like is it over yet.... but sometimes i do get off and thats because i imagine that i am fucking one of my ex boyfriends yeah i know that is so horrible and so wrong but hell atleast i get off. otherwise i havent been able to figure out what to do .

 

Wow... That is crazy. You need to talk to your man. Tell him he doesn't penetrate until you have gotten off from other means first.

I can't imagine being used like that. Your goal in sex is to make your partner enjoy it, not to get a quick fix for yourself. If you want that you can masturbate...

Talk to him. I can't believe he would knowingly do this to you. I'm sure if you had a serious talk with him about how it makes you feel, he'd do something to correct it.

 

Your bf needs to realize that sex is a two way street and that he must reciprocate, u are entitled to that much regardless of his displeasure of 4play. I would dump a guy like that faster than he could say boo.

iccleme:
google clitoris or read http://sexuality.about.com/od/oralsex/ht/cunnilingus.htm.

 

yeah ... definately clit...