Alright I haven't posted anything on the hipforum in about 6 months but I'm really in a bad situation. The girl I was with for years, the one that I always wrote about in my posts, has left me. We were incredibly in love, had the greatest times together, and had the greatest wildest sex possible as often as possible. But lately she's had a lot going on (she got rejected from the college she wanted to go to, had a fight with her dad, etc.) and she started to seem like a completely different person beause of it. Then, in midst of her changing, she ended out relatinship which she always said was the most important thign in the world because she said that things don't feel the same...she doesn't feel like shes in love with me anymore. Now, every nice thing I try to do for her (nice dinner, whatever) seems to juts piss her off. I am a pretty tough guy who's been through some real bad thigns but I have no problem saying to you right now that I love this girl and I want her back so bad I am a complete mess. How can I make her love me again? Anything is appreciated...
I would suggest you give her some time and space. From what I gathered she has a lot of things going on and may just need a break. I'm sorry that at the moment she doesn't want to be with you. And I certainly understand the pain you are going through, but if you two were meant to be together, you'll find each other again. If she is getting angry from you doing nice things for her, I would take that as a sign to back off a little bit. It may only push her away more. I know how hard it is, I've gone through this myself. Good luck to you.
I understand how it feels to be rejected from the one college you really wanted and fight with your father over a lot. It really threw me off for awhile. Now, I think she needs comfort more than anything. Don't push anything towards her, especially the pressure of a seemingly troubled relationship. Give it time. Sometimes it takes people a bit to realize what's most important to them.