i hate this............. i hate this "look" thing, looking good bla bla.... people say it's the inside that matters?! sure!......what a load of shit! when i put cool clothes on, fix my hair and do some other things to fix my appearance, i'll for sure meet new people more easily.... FUCK.... i wish we would stop being HYPOCRITES..... hooked on this fucking consuming slavery.... i wish we would STOP PRETENDING (i guess i am the same, i like guys w ok appeareance, even though i pretend not to......) What if i just said, "FUCK IT!" I ain't showing off any more..... maybe in my next life///
The beauty inside of you lets you see the beauty around you. If they were really beautiful and happy inside, would they judge? Focus on you being beautiful inside for you. Focus on you being beautiful outside for you. Realize that some people are shallow, but at the same time, realize that there are some pretty chill people out there. you know? peace =).
uhmmm guess what, not all of us need to consume to look/feel good. Some ppl consume cos they don't feel good about themselves. I feel better 'bout myself than I have for a long time and I consume less than b4. Another thing I noticed is that ppl consume more clothes when their size changes... that should be food for thought. The obesity epidemic has perhaps caused more turnover in wardrobes thus more consumption than what we realize.
i saw a bumpersticker the other day.... Stop trying to change the way you look, change the way you see the world.
"Its easier to pick up bar skanks if you look nice" hmmm....sure? I dont really think that you should look one way or the other for anyone. This sounds really kidish, but if people dont except you from how you look, then they should just fuck off. ha. *by the way spooner, nice pic.
Im the same way , i say i dont look for looks but all girls i like , are cute +. I dont know whats wrong with me...
Are you looking for freidns or potential mates or what? Attractiveness is relative and though I hate it is this way..important to an extent. Just biology wise. I have found that the better I look, the better I feel about myself. When I exercise, I feel good. I feel good so other people notice I feel good...so I look good. Does that makes sense? If you feel good inside it shows on the outside. Do what you want . If you don't feel like fixing your hair, don't. If you try to do things for yourself rather than others then you will be happier. If you really do have depression then seek help please. It isn't a weakness, it is a legitimate disorder.
i think confidence is what matters, and some people aren't confident unless they do their hair or put on makeup or something. but if you can, be confident without it, it takes less work and you'll look just as good. confidence attracts people, and once you know a person, you don't really think about what they look like. you just look at them and think, "oh, there's my friend". i always wear eyeliner... it is my little shield, even though i look pretty much the same without it. but just something about knowing i did something makes me feel more... outgoing... i like how i look with it better. even if some people are like, "man, too much eyeliner." if you like your "not cool" clothes, wear them like they are hot shit.
Don forget the all powerful MONEY! Hell that old dude with Anna Nicole, he was one ugly fella. You got enough cash and even the ugly get lucky sometimes,lol
