Quoted for motherfucking truth. Even if there's just 1 person out there who sees my point, I can sleep better at night. Thanks.
men who act that way can sseriously care less if she's pregnant or not. Some men are just abusive and luckily we as women have the power not to choose them or to leave them when we find out! I am a very lucky girl right now muaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah...I love the way you think baby
Thanks, dahhhling....hopefully his wife will realize soon that being a single mother is so much better than being in an abusive relationship...
hahhhhhhhh I would so be crossing legs for eternity and taking your credit card shopping everyday if I were married to you...and I know what you're gonna say 'well I'd never marry you' but trust me you would...as I told my friend Peter last weekend...I'm everyone's type d:
hah I think it's great how abusive men think we're missing out by not being with them. They tend to have such extreme narcisism and for no reason at all. Are you educated, talll, goodlooking, extremely largely built, good in bed, a good cuddeler...please tell me what abusive men bring to a relationship because the only one I've ever been with really had nothing to offer me and I find that that's true for my friends who have been in abusive relationships. but yes please tell me why you think you are so great. you know the funniest thing int he world is leaving an abusive narcisist because they can't believe you left them...ya get to a point where ya just gotta laugh. I just posted how everything has a reason and my reason was for sure making me realize that not all men are nice guys and I need to be more careful. I'm so blessed that the relationship didn't continue and that I'm not in your wife's situation. I would hate to have shit thrown and someone screaming in my face and hitting me arghhhh nuh uhhhhhh not for me...I'm wayyyyy to fucking good to deal with that shit
Um, what's up with that? I hope you treat your significant other better than you treat the other people on this forum. peace and love
Quality, look at WHAT she complains about: that's a trigger for both of you obviously. Now quit yelling and breaking, because those are the roadsigns to hell for a relationship. back right up and get where you should be with this goddess, crabby as she might be now, thnat you chose to procreate with. I crab out when I fell the sigO is not holding up, or at least dragging his end. I feel that I have the right to not be the houseslave. But it gets far worse when we are personally disconnected: when we aren't talking or spending time alone (kids do sleep) chill, get off your highhorse, and look at what is really going on in your home.
My god the assumptions and generalisations sure do fly around here. Let's have a look the last thing Quality said in the original post: "Instead of screaming in her face, what can be done to help people like her besides drugs?" A simple question and what becomes of it? A quick descent into pages of slander and mudflinging...... Quality is now a mysogynistic woman-beating aggressor who threw a chair at his poor pregnant wife and now his children are going to grow up to have one disastrous relationship after another and may very well become alcoholics who also beat on their children and spouses and will resent their father for the rest of their lives. Puh-lease. Let's admit it. There's people in this world (men and women alike) who are unreasonable. Nobody is infallible. Sometimes what it takes to get through to someone is a bit of drastic action. If yelling and breaking something worked for you Quality then so be it.
how about the both of you get over it and grow up and since you have the third child on the way put aside this petty bull crap...whose fault it is, is neither here nor there...arguing in a relationship is extremely pointless because each person will think that they are the right one and it will probably never ever stop until you both realize you are wrong and get over it and both shut up and start acting like adults...
People offered suggestions...and he didn't take them without argument...*shrugs* He shouldn't post if he doesn't want to hear opinions...and if you don't like what others say, don't read it. That's what's great about the internet. Things are so easy to ignore.
Quality, man, you wasted your time asking for help if you're just going to attack people for giving their honest to god insight on it. DancerAnnie was never meaning to tear you down, attack you, or anything of the sort, she just was showing concern for your children. It's not fun to watch parents fight...and it really can screw a kid up. The only reason anyone has deemed you as abusive has been because of the attitude you've shown. I'm not saying you're abusive, but maybe you need to look into calmer manners of solving things. You definitely shouldn't have let the anger boil up to the point of explosion, so maybe you guys should be more open with one another. If you need a mediator (therapist, family psychologist, clergyman, whatever you choose), then by all means, find one. You have to be able to express your feelings before they build to an irrational explosion. I've been what my boyfriend has referred to as "a bit of a whiner" all my life and one day, he sat me down and calmly told me that I shouldn't see the bad side of so many things and that I needed to start doing my part to fix what was wrong, as he was doing all he could. And things have been much better. Calm discussions that may end up with some crying are always better than irrational explosions that end up with fear. Obviously you care and you want to change or you wouldn't have come here in the first place. Definitely consider relationship counseling.
