What's wrong with girls today?

I am so sick of slutty little girls with no brains! Why is it that in this society slutty effing girls get more attention than intelligent, classy girls?!?!?! Ahhhhh!!! How did the idea come into these little girls heads that all you need in life is attention from a guy, regardless of how that attention is gained?? I hate men!

 

I happen to like sluttly little girls.

 

for a supposedly peaceful bunch, were rather superfical here on the forums

 

Why is peaceful and superficial mutually exclusive?

 

well theyre not but we all seem to be touting this laid back attitude and yet there is post after post bitching about how slutty, ugly, or unacceptable people are...

it just grates me that we all claim to be so accepting and yet we are so unscrupulous when it comes to ctritising others... it makes me feel ill

 

I think your post is ridiculous (to an extent).. But that's your feelings.. When I first come back to these forums I had a girl who hated on me from the start.. She hated the fact I had a picture of myself in my signature, and said that I was a dumbass who got attention for simply being 'pretty'.. She said the guys needed to see the 'real beauty' in her.. Basically she shown her true self.. Maybe it was her personality that left her lacking in the male department.. She believed everything had been handed down and that I'd not worked for anything.. Some girls automatically assume if you're pretty that you're a slut, stupid or had it made your entire life.. When it is clearly the opposite..


News to everyone: You CAN be intelligent and attractive.. Wow, who would have known.

 

Tell me anbout it, that really gets up my nose. I often get women hate me because of the way I look. They assume I get eeverything handed to me on a plate, and its bull shit.

 

exactly...


I dress kinda slutty from time to time, but that doens't mean I've lost all my brain power or intelligence the moment I put on a low-cut top, yaknow? I don't often dress like that, but when I do (mostly because I'd overheat and melt at the bar while dancing if I wore too much) it's amazing how differently you're treated, especially by other chicks

 

you know what I'm sick of? I'm sick of judgmental women who can't get along with other women. This is what society teaches us, that other women are our enemies! Fight the oppression by making friends with these women instead. Don't let our male-dominated society teach you not to get along. Men are terrified of us, and they do not want us to join forces because they are afraid we'll rise up against them. They don't realize that power games are not what most women are after, they don't realize that women really don't want to play that shit.

What you need to do is be yourself. What you need to do is get over this petty jealousy of other women getting more attention than you. Stop being so competitive, and start getting along instead. What I suggest is that you learn to appreciate the beauty that is in all women, rather than taking it as a personal insult of some sort. We are all sisters. Show your little sisters some love.

 

everyone has their own attractions. some people attractions are more physical. they will use these to get the attention we all crave and need from other members of our species. to hate them would be much the same as hating a peacock for having a big pretty tail.

just remember, the people they're attracting are not the people you want to attract, because clearly their priorities are different. they're not bad people necessarily, just different from you in a fundamental way. why do you crave the attention of people who aren't for you? once you got their attention, it would annoy you, trust me. you'd have little in common.

so buck up, live and let live. those girls have their own lessons to learn and their own pain to experience.

 

april fools was saturday...

 

I can stand on my head.

 

i understand being frustrated with men's attention going to women who flaunt what they have. but they are confident in their appearance. that is an attractive quality to men as well. they have their deals to deal with as well.
i am not one of the super attractive people....and i dont dress in a way that draws attention to me but that is because i dont want taht attention. i have no problem with others doing it. i am sure so much of my issue is that i dont think i am pretty and i dont want others to look at me and say, who is she trying to fool.
i admire those that are confident enough to dress how they feel. and if they want that type of attention, rock on.
love...love...love. start with yourself mama
i have never been without a partner though because i attract those that are attracted to my insides, as kc said. its all about what is important to us. to some its looks, to others its brains, to others its personality, and to some, its anything with two legs that can seperate
be confident and stand tall. wear something sexy on occasion, it feels good to feel cute.

 

i was at the mall last sunday and there were girls that were like 12 and they looked like they could have been 18. they wear so much make-up and the smallest clothes they can....but i guess it dosnt help when the mother is standing beside them looking the same way....my mother use to wear some really cute clothes (well for the 80's and 90's) but now her and my younger sister who is 16 wear really sluty clothes my moms boobs are always hanging out and my sisters ass is always hanging out...i prefer to wear clothes that are comfortable even if they are'nt that nice looking.

 

I prefer to wear what I want and let others do the same

 

My thoughts entirely. If some girls want to dress in tiny skirts and revealing tops that up to them (it's generally not my thing but I'm not going to try and stop them!). We all want to show ourselves off sometimes...

 

If their parents don't like it...then they can do something about it. However, if they are under 13 or so, the parents, I believe, need to step up and make sure their children are making wise decisions concerning their clothing choices.

 

Certain things do not make you "slutty". I think "slutty" is how you carry yourself and how much you respect yourself. I also do not necessarily think the poster is jealous per se.
For instance, the other night I was on campus at a little eatery and there was a girl who had a skirt on that may as well have been an ACE bandage with a ruffle. She also had a tiny little bra-ish tank top on. So she was showing pretty much everything except nipples and vagina. Of course she got looks. It doesn't mean they were respectful looks. Her body was nice but even if I had been as tall or tan or skinny, etc as she, I would STILL not wear something that outwardly trashy. Is it sexist of me to think she could have covered up a bit more? I don't think so. Yes we should all wear what we want. Yes, as women we should be encouraging of other women and accepting of our bodies. But do not tell me she should be offended if I guy should ask her for her services. Dave Chappelle said something along the lines of "you aren't a hooker but you're wearing a hooker's uniform". I think we should just take into account public decency and not making everyone else uncomfortable just because you think you are sexy. Hell, put some tight jeans on and wear the same tank top. Sexy but a little more classy.
You can be sexy without being completely naked. My friend saw a girl in the store who was about 14-16 whose ass cheeks were hanging out of her skirt. (Not exaggerating, the actual cheeks were out). What example are we setting?
I consider myself a feminist and think we should let people do what they want as long as it doesn't hurt others. However, I think we should be aware of others and take them into consideration as well. Class has to be taken into consideration. The world is not a strip club or a brothel.

 

In a world where Paris Hilton is held up as a visual role model, and is always one of the top searches on Yahoo or Google, can we really blame the kids for dressing like her? The role models that our youth are looking up wear "barely there" clothes... monkey see, monkey do. No doubt eatting disorders are everywhere... all the "hot" women are size 0.