yikes...now this is scary

www.dontdatehimgirl.com

talk about a witch hunt.

 

god bless the internet.

Just one more reason to lie about your name when at the bars.

 

You could make some stuff up.

 

The worst thing about that website is you can find information on people. Even if they are accused "cheaters", they still don't deserve to have their indentity stolen.

 

there are like 8300 of those sites out there

never been cheated on, and never distrusted someone enough to check out one of those sites. It seems so... low, and cruel. undeservingly so

 

Ahh I can think of instances where I'd probably deserve it.

 

Does a guy get a chance to tell his side of the story?

It's always a good idea not to send e-mail and especially not to post anything on the Internet when you're in a really bad mood...and this site seems to encourage that.

 

wow. i am a woman and I have serious issues with this site. these girls are upset and ridiculous. Half of the stories don't really sound that bad.

 

handy for gullible women or those too fucking stupid to trust their own instincts i s'pose.....

 

That's fucked up. There are too many messed up sites. Shows there are many many crazy people out there.

 

I wouldn't care if I was on that site, for I wouldn't want to date a girl who'd read crap like that to begin with. So it's a sort of filter.

 

I've decided the site is sexist because its intended only for stories about men, not women cheaters.

If there is a woman cheaters site out there I don't care. I am sure there is, and that site is sexist too.

 

OMFG... SEXIST BULLSHIT!!!

"In general, men are more likely to cheat for more superficial reasons, like the need for excitement, while women are more likely to stray if there is serious trouble in the marriage."

Its as bad as nomarriage and AWS, it might even be worse than nomarriage .

 

What the hell?

"Healing Exercises

Weil offers her clients some specific exercises for healing. In one, the betrayed spouse gets 10 minutes a day to "lash the lover" -- to scream and yell and otherwise vent his rage."

 

http://www.classaction-dontdatehimgirl.com/#letterfromthemen

 

I almost want to create a similar site, just to push buttons. Except you could post pictures/names/locations of girls you've nailed and know are easy.

Just to show them how "freedom of speech" is a double-edged sword.

 

With freedom of speech comes responsibility but this responsibilty, I believe, intimately comingles with an understanding of what people are able to emotionally deal with in a good and responsible manner; care should be taken not to foolishly coddle, or tease, those with a compromised level of emotional maturity; this variety of levels in maturity is within all social and cultural strata.

In each instance, in every situation, we all have lessons to learn; hindsight often allows us, and future generations, to see some of these lessons. There are those who are not actively thoughtful; who do not use heathly self-review and are unwilling to consider their ways and the possibilities for good change and improvement. Commonplace physical and psychological violence including public humiliation, I believe, will eventually be relics of our evolution.




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Pessimist. What do you think about existentialism?

 

Green,

You write:

Your assessment of me, via the post that you have quoted, appears to be making a quality assessment about my view; I think that this is clear. And if we agree then we have consensus. I will return the question to you in an extended form: "What do you think about existentialism; when we see, experience and analyze do we not need a reference, no matter if the reference be explained in manner that meets group agreement or not ?"

I see the view that I have expressed as optimistic and wonderful: The idea of unimpeded consideration of the truth coupled with an, ultimately, intuitivity understood sense of balance in approaching others such that successful communication occurs. The idea that we can learn, the idea that violence may be transcended for healthful cooperative human existence. I realize that there are terms within my statements that may require further definition.

Often, though not always, I have found that people saying similar things in a different "langauge," that go misunderstood, are a cause of fight or flight reaction. In my view, I can ultimately can only "speak to the 'heart'" because of the inherent uncertain nature of any knowledge.


Peace,

David




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ahh so what. dont do bad shit, and you wont get pinned up on the internet. theres a spot for men to defend themselves on that site, to their small credit - it gets posted beside your condemners speech. a lot of people in this world need to be exposed to someone elses version of the events they've been involved in. its a way to learn about yourself.