Does Money Buy Happiness?

uhm that wasn't my pm do you want me to copy and paste it really? if you do i will other than that im done. Adma is a close friend of mine he always has my back is so close that when he and I were going to meet he understood that I fell for Chris fast and didn't care still wanted to be my friend and call me and became Chris' friend as well. He's a standup guy and when he and I were romantically interested in each other he treated me with nothing but respect always asked if I needed anything, if I wanted him to send me anything and still after i am with Chris I know he would be there for me if anything happened.

Andy is also my friend and I am not going to sell out my friends...bros before hoes...

 

After debt is paid off then comes peace of mind. That is happiness.

Being able to have a dollar in my pocket if I need or want something. That is happiness.

Buying shit that I don't need and seeing the look on my husbands face when I show it to him that is sadness. (and guilt)

Achieving a goal of paying off debt and being able to save for a new home that is happiness. That also goes with looking at my husbands face when the debt is paid off and seeing the weight lifted off his shoulders...That is pure JOY!

 

money can't buy happiness
but if you want to be happy
money is necessary

 

well that is not the side of him (adam) that i saw .... like i said a long time ago, people change.



i wish someone would close this thread.


i cant stand this drama.

 

taken back to avoid more drama. please just dont mention me in threads for no reason and ill be as respectful.

 

Nope, it doesn't.

 

people that typically think money cant at least help to buy happiness are typically people that never went without money.

 

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it doesn't buy true happiness
but it can pave the way, reduce obstacles, etc. All depends on how you use it

 

So I'm typical while at the same Time atypical?
Perhaps we're getting somewhere... *c*

 

indeed. but tell that to a starving person.

 

^i dont even remember the most fundamental part of first/second year liberal arts education totally... so sad.... (that's how it goes though)- pyramid though- when you're on the bottom you CAN'T think of the top (spirtual freedom and other luxeries to people stuck on 'need food, need water, need shelter')

but it's key.. a certain amount of money to some people CAN create happiness...

of course there is a point where money no longer supports the "needs stucture"- at that point it can easily cause problems which are usually not "punished" because you have money but yadda yadda.. then yes, any problems, cant be helped with money.

 

go to africa and tell a woman with hiv and babies with malaria and um.... um....

speak into a megaphone

 

what's that song, people who say that gold is the root of all that kills...they have never been poor, they have never known the joy of a welfare christmas...

that band had a lotta shit i liked like that.

 

YES. thanks. i couldn't remember who they were to save my life. i swear, it's like my older brother was writing and singing that shit. it's like my childhood sountrack.

 

i wouldn't trade my childhood either, it's made me strong. but i woulda given anything to wipe that look of grief outta my mom's eyes. i know how it got there now. i know why she was sad when we were opening our meager gifts.

 

my kai is the princess of cheap joy, i swear. you can hand her a box of 4 crayons at a restaraunt and she'll be like "FOR ME!? THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!" she doesn't care. but my mother is paying for her to be in gymnastics and dance classes, and god, the look of joy on her face when she's in there is so satisfying.

 

that is very sweet ..... my kids beg me to go to the dollar store too ....... then my son can get his 1.00 bag of army men to play with in the bath.

I wish stuff at the liquor store only costs 1.00$

 

alrighty. this thread was reopened, and all attacks and petty drama was erased. there are warnings sent out to all four of you involved. if this continues, and other threads are hijacked with your drama and personal attacks, you will be banned. let this be a warning. (now continue on with the thread at hand). this was a mess to clean up, btw.

 

I love you madcrappie!!

 

Maslow's Hierarchy

is what I had wanted to say a leeetle while ago