ok first of all...about the new guy I'll be dating.. ok first of all we dicided to talk about our relationship.. we don't want anything really really serious (he's been hurt a few times and i just get freaked out of serious realtionships)... so we were talking and we dicided that we can flirt with whoever the fuck we want and we can kiss whoever the fuck we want.. just no making out with other people and just jokingly... lol...
Umm...just my opinion...but you are pretty much giving him permission to trample on you. Not to sound mean, but what if when you wanted a serious relationship he still likes being able to "move around"? Just a thought.
i guess will decide what happens when are are both serious but at the moment everything will be alright... I mean we won't be sleeping with other people and stuff of course not.. it's just kissing that's it. no making out with other people or anything.. it's not like we are just going to go off and find people to kiss and stuff all of a sudden.. lol.. it's not like we are havign sex with many other people... but will decide if we get serious that will talk about it
That is true too. I wish you luck on this. I wasn't dissing on you about the relationship, I just don't like seeing people get hurt. Keep us updated on this.
I find it kinda humurous reading your threads about, 'the guy I'll be dating'. It sounds like some sorta of pre-arranged relationship.
of course I'll keep you guys updated on it... i hope everything turns out good abnd stuff... I mean we talked about it and shit so who knows? At least we have talked about it instead of just going right at it without telling eachother whats going on... i just want to see how it is.. i have never done this before so this wil be new for me as well as him... he has had many controlling girlfriends and shit
I CAN'T KISS ANY RANDOM PERSON!!! I only want to kiss dan and dan only... I dunno.. i HAVE to talk to him but he's not home and I feel all stupid and shit... I only want to kiss him and him only... I dunno... I have no fucking idea what the fucks wrong with me... I mean he is sooooo sweet I have no idea why we even discussed it.. I ended up emailing him about it... uug i feel like shit.. maybe i'll go make myself throw up... WAIT i can't i am not going to do that anymore... The next day I'll probably regret even writing this on here... I don't know what the fucks wrong with me... I get all panicky too easy I guess... but he is the only guy i want to kiss... uug fuck! I feel like one of those girls that all they fucking talk about is their fucking relationships and crap.. boy this makes me want to vomit...
huh??? i wasn't saying anything but the stuff i just put down??? don't confuse me right now... lol...
I knew for some reason when I first started reading this that someone would end up getting upset. these things don't work out. who knows though, good luck and I hope you talk to him.
ya.... none of us has really kissed anyone right now.. it was just going through my head and shit.. and i started feeling all dizzy and throwupy... but yes.. i need all the fucking luck i can get...
First of all, darlin'...you can SAY "oh, we'll only kiss other people, no sex or anything..." but think about it. Kissing most usually leads to other things. Who's to say that in the middle of him kissing another girl, he won't lose control and "HAVE" to have her right then and there? I don't want to make you upset, but you just have to think of these things. Also...you said he has had many controlling girlfriends in the past, and you don't want to be one of them. I understand where you're coming from with this. But at the same time...there's a difference between being a controlling girlfriend and being a girlfriend who wants to be in a monotonous relationship, ya know? I'm in an awesome relationship with my man...and we have the mutual understanding that we're monotonous and faithful to each other. No one's "controlling" the other. It's just a matter of respect, really. You can want to be with only one guy, and not be controlling about it. Now if you start stalking him when he goes out, and checking his phone messages and emails...then I'd say you're controlling...lol. But just wanting to be with him alone...that's normal, and healthy. Good luck with your situation.
i've been in a non-serious relationship. but that was nothing like what you got going on. we were only with each other, but we were free (i need my freedom, very much). I really think your situation is kinda screwy (no offence). i don't see why you would want to JUST kiss another person. i'm not saying everyone you kiss, you fuck. but i mean usually if i kiss someone it leads to making out..
what i meant was.. IF another person wanted to kiss me (and they new i was dating someone) then I would let them.. I mean I can stop a person from making out with me... It's easy (for me anyways) to JUST kiss a person... I'm not saying "everyone your all allowed to kiss me." I'm not saying that I was just saying that if someone asked if they can kiss me then sure why not...
