Guilty Secret

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MAn you did something stupid like years ago, not bright, but its the past. If they have not brought it up then likely it meant nothing but a stupid thing back then too. I mean she is what 12 now? If your really that bummed and freinds with them all perhaps you need to apologize to her then? I mean just tell her you all were playing some stupid game and at the time you thought it funny being young and immature but now you have grown older and realize how stupid and terrible it was and you felt the need to apologize for being so uncaring, stupid, idiotic and a terrible friend. Likely she will not remember but if she did she likely never gave it another thought. Cant change the past just correct the future.

 

Don't be too hard on yourself sweetie. You weren't all that old yourself. I mean true, it's wasn't exactly appropriate, but kids play some crazy games at times, and I'm sure it was long forgotten. Now if you did something like that at the age you are now to a 7 year old, well, that's a whole different situation!

 

I agree with the other posters and infact! One of my earlier memoroies is on of exposing myself to a neighborhood girl. It's something kids do. At 12, maybe not the most clever game to play, but whatever. And the intentions of a 12 tear old oy playing a game with his 6 yr old brother and his 7 yr old friend are quite different thant a 17 or 18 yr old man exposing himself to a child for sexual gratification.

Don;t worry, your post is no where as creepy as Sininabin's.
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Hahahahahahahaha, man this made me laugh out loud. Why are you so hard on yourself? Big deal, she'll get over it. It's not like she won't be seeing shlong all her life, unless of course, she's a rugmuncher

 

It's a pretty open forum. But good for you for talking about something that upsets you.

I doubbt that very much. You commited the "offence" as a minor, if she hasn;t been acting wierd towards you forthe last 6 years it's probably a non issue for her. If your families are stil friends AND it's discussed It'll be chalked up as "kids stuff". I don;t think she would recall your level of physical arousal. I'm sure to a seven year old female a weiner is a weiner. Odd and confusing.

 

You should just relax and forget about it. It happened a long time ago when you were both minors. You shouldnt even mention it to her, and apologize.
Just move on. Stop beating yourself up about it. Relax and live life.
My neighbor who was a year older flashed his penis to me when I was 7. Big deal. Im not traumatized, and it didnt bother me.

 

You were 12, and now you're 17 and you start (or are still) thinking about it.
It's the past, and the others would probably have forgotten about it already!

Probably, in your head you've kind of made it worse than it actually was, even though you don't realize it, that's how the human mind works.

Besides, there's a huge age difference between 12 and 17 really!
You've gotten a lot more mature. You were just a child, and kids do a lot of stuff that's not really that smart, just because they still have to explore a lot of random stuff. Human nature!

No need to even mention it to your family and stuff, you just have to move on. You didn't traumatize the girl!
It's really not a problem you once did this! Enjoy life!

 

man.. you are totally fine. im 17 and stuff like this happened to me when i was little with my guy firends cause i was a tom boy anbd im totally fine. i havent really thought about it except to laug at it a few times

 

i'm pretty sure a 12 year old is still a child and things like that happen with children its how they discover and learn about sexuality especially if their parents don't talk about it with them. i'm thinking that everything is alright you all were children. i wouldn't suggest doing something like that at your current age, but see how guilty you feel over something you did as a child i doubt you will make a choice like that.

 

you sound like your really putting much thought into it, the thought that showing your dick to a seven year old like 4 years ago worries you is quite funny, you probably have already but to be happy you have to let go worry and consequences but it also good to write it down becasue think all these people know what you did so it no longer a secret and i don't even think it is a mistake you did it just leave in the past. I use to strees about so many things but as long as you think about it the longer you already been caught the only one who make you suffer from a mistake is yourself, if you never belive what happened happened then it never happened with you, and by what you said that girl never going be hurt by it either. I can't really say anything more but the closest thing i found to me yet,

 

lol, that makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside; i've been looking into some of your stuff you seem like i preety down to earth guy

oh yeah chris look at the post before this one and my signature it is basically my message on most things

 

just jarring on ya. It's a social norm thing. In this thread we're talking about a 12yr old boy as a child who makes mistakes and is stil figuring out the sexuality thing. in your thread we're trying to adress weather a 12 yr old woman is sexualy mature to know what she wants.

Sorry man, I can see how that was hurtful. Shouldn;t have brought it up.

 

Dude, you were 12. Kids do stuff like that. I think you're way too worried about this, chances are good, if she even remembers, by now she probably just thinks it was silly. I don't think you'd get punished now for something you did 5 years ago. I remember when I was a kid, me and my neighbors were always showing each other what we had. I was 2 years older than the oldest one (a boy) and I still don't feel weird about it. I feel quite normal, in fact. It's just part of kids learning their sexuality. All you did was show it, no big deal.

 

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I think we have all been involved in something like this to some extent. I mean, my parents never explained to me the difference between a boy and a girl...I think I learned it when my male cousin and I were changing into our bathing suits one day at my grandma's house. I think he was like 5 and I was 6...I was just thinking to myself "What the heck?" and then I figured it out later..."So THAT'S the difference between a boy and a girl!" LOL

 

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being 12 years old in a european country the cops would prob laughh "except the UK were everything is still a taboo". In the U.S you might get the gas chamber or burn to death by the catholic church. they wont lynch blacks anymore since they shoot back.

 

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