Gay?

I am straight, but I have agreed recently to cutting a guy's grass in the nude. I did it, and though I felt extremely aroused, I still know that I am not gay.


Anyway, he had been helping me bag some leaves we had raked up in his privately fenced in back yard. He was dressed, and in the process, my erection had come into contact with his hands and other places a few times accidently. I liked when it happened and it felt really good, but I still feel it was just erotic fun, and not that I am gay, since I do not have thoughts of having sex with him. What opinion do you people here in this forum have to say on this? I also amit that I was oozing a lot from my penis because of the excitement.

 

It sounds to me like it was probably just the excitement of the situation that got you. I highly doubt you're gay, maybe you've just got some curiosity that would like to be settled? Or maybe it was just extremely erotic to you.

 

Woo, that guy's kinky! Lol. It's pretty normal for straight men to have homoerotic experiences.

 

You must be having your doubts, otherwise you would have never agreed to work in nude for another male and you would not be posting here either.

It is only up to you to decide, where you want to go from here?

Take care,
KD

 

Hmmm....maybe it would be helpful to think of it this way: how would you have felt about doing yard work in the nude for a woman?

 

Thanks. I do feel that it was a really erotic experience, and that I was just affected by the whole scenario. I'm glad to know that it's normal for straight guys to have these homoerotic experiences as well. I sometimes do have a fantasy about being with a man sexually, but don't if I could ever do it.

I have actually already been doing work for an elderly woman who is my neighbor, which is how I met this man, and why I agreed to work nude for him as well.

 

Well i gues you ARE questioning atleast a bit sicne you're posting on this forum and asking the questoin. It soudns like you might be interested in having an expereicne with a guy.
Do what feels right. KNow that ignoring certain feeligns never guarantees their departure. Be truthful to yourself.

And to be honest, that weird animated ladyw itht he white hair and red and black leather taht is walking in place in your signature is REALYL distracting and annoying, hahaha.
Cheers,
Dylan

 

Good point about the sig animation, so I took it out.

Thanks for the response to my post. I may wish to try being sexual with another male at least just once someday, because I think it would be interesting and fun. It would also be a different kind of a thing to experience.

 

Don't feel pressured to "label yourself" either...just do what feels good.

 

Thanks Night-Owl, that makes good sense. I just was surprised at how excited I was getting at the time. I mean to have kept an erection off and on that long with him, and to be oozing from my penis like I was over it, is being pretty aroused.

 

I agree with KewlDewd66, I think you have some doubt in your mind. If your were 100% straight the thought of things like that wouldn't have entered your mind.

 

Guess what folks? You don't fuckin' CHOOSE to be gay! Wanna know what I think about spidey man? He's either completely full of BS about this whole affair OR he's tryin' AWFULLY hard to come out! Watch and wait folks, in a coupla months "spidey" man here will be callin himself a "bi" sexual(2nd phase of coming out). Until finally one comes completely out. Don't worry spidey, lots of us have made this journey before you! Welcome to the family!

 

Ahhh, you're a dick...

 

Because EVERYBODY knows that only an absolutely 100% gay person has homoerotic fantasies. Some people actually CAN have feelings towards both sexes, so don't even start the "bi" bullshit. Nobody here was saying anyone chooses to be gay, so before you start your senseless labelling, think. Just because he had the experience he did does not make him gay and it is not fair at all to automatically assume so. Spidey, if you wanna experiment, go right ahead, don't worry about labels. If you still like chicks, too, that's perfectly alright. I think discovering your sexuality is a beautiful thing, especially when you are open enough to explore all options and see what you like.

 

Fun is fun.

 

I disagree with this completely. If you are lying on your back and immobilized and a dog started licking you in your genitals, chances are you would get an erection. This would hardly call for question as to whether or not you were into beastiality. Being exposed outside (i.e. nekkid) is arousing and having your privates touched or brushed upon by ANYONE would/could cause arousal.

I worked not too long ago with a paraplegic who needed to be digitally disimpacted. The procedure gave him a stiffie. Trust me. He was not turned on by me or the process.

 

Whats that with dogs?? hehe.. Not that ive tried but i understand the whole consept of having genitals touched and getting aroused because its to do with senses and nerves that triggers them off..

 

I think many--if not most--men would agree that we've all had erections in some of the most inconvenient or awkward situations. It isn't just or even mostly a sex thing.

 

Thank you for the great response, Ramona. I think it makes great sense.

 

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