Right, this is really affecting our sex life. When we do it, I always go down on her for a good 20 - 25 minutes, she doesn't always finish but she is always dripping wet, when we start to do it we both enjoy it for a few mins then it starts to hurt her she says she is dry from inside... what can we do?
That would be the female equivilant of losing an erection. Seems to me she loves getting tongued but having a dick in her doesn't do much for her. You are best of to seek professional help, because this sounds like a mental rather than physical problem. You can try and find out things that turn her on, like for example a bit of erotic talk or rubbing her bum or other things. But like I said go to a pro.
i have the inverse problem: forplay usually don't make me wet (except for getting a head ), but once we have managed to get his cock inside, i get wet in 1 or 2 seconds....
