Hi Hippievixen, Could you please share the inner and outer depths of your personality - I'd like to better understand the heart, soul, and mind of a scorpio sun and gemini moon. Here's the background: I'm a gemini sun and pisces moon and I have a deep and unwavering affinity for a scorpio sun/gemini moon. The bond is unexplainable, unspoken (not because of me) and has endured time (5 years) and distance (separate states). The relationship has never been sexual or anything like that - but not even a normal friendship. We had only one lunch together in our entire time together. We physically worked together on some projects for 1.5 years. I moved and thought that whatever feelings existed would just dissipate and we would move on, but we have found ways to work on projects together - almost as a way to keep contact. It's like the work projects give us a safe rationale to maintain contact. It's unexplainable because there is no reason to feel unsafe. My intent is just to evolve this relationship to something more intimate, open, and real (not sexual). I just want to know or understand the relationship from the scorpios perspective ( has plenty of friends, and a better half and a couple of kids)- which has never revealed itself no matter what approach I've taken. I feel all my other relationships with all my other friends and my better half as well, are open, honest, sharing feelings, intimate, etc... Yet I feel that my deepest emotional bond on some levels is with this scorpio who I don't even really know in person. It's odd and crazy. I have felt this way from the first we met - some crazy unexplainable bond. I would like not to share any more detailed information than what I've stated, if possible. Help if you can just by sharing some parts of your deeper self, so I can get a better idea of how to handle things. I've been a good, trusted, and loyal friend for sure these past 5 years - even at a distance. I just want to move things forward to a new level of openness and honesty, if possible. Primarily, I would like to know if the feelings that I have are mutual or is this "bond" I feel is completely one way. Why do scorpio suns hide so much of themselves for no reason? Why is it so difficult for them to open up and tell it like it is - for them (esp, given a gemini moon)?