OK. I'm male. And I've experimented with anal stimulation, and found that yes, indeed, there is something pleasurable there. -BUT- No matter how much I experiment, even using plenty of lube, it still tends to just be more painful than pleasurable and thus, not worth it. -YET- I always hear about/read about/see in pornos women (and sometimes men) getting stuffed up the ass and having a ball! So how do you do it? Does lots of practice really stretch it out? Do you use a desensitizing cream (apart from regular lube)? Do you just take it really slow and easy? Or are you just a glutton for pain? Tell me the secrets of ass-stuffing. Merci. EDIT/P.S. - I didn't realize we had a forum just for Oral & Anal Sex. (all these damn forums!) Mods, if you want to move it there go ahead.
Luckily for me, I stopped worrying about whether people think I'm cool when I left high school. Actually, what am I talking about, I haven't cared if people thought I was cool since the last millenium! Where have you been?
You're right, Bella!!! Let him lick you until you are sopping fucking wet. Thennnn let him fuck your ass *giggggles*
Think SMALL!!! When a guy witha big cock fucks me in the arse it hurts like hell, no changing that, but when it's a smaller guy it feels soooo nice... Yeah, time and practice, lots of lube and the right mood will probalby do it. I think the anus needs to be stimulated first to relax before it is penetrated.
I don't know about anybody else but how can a person take it up the ass when the pain exceeds the pleasure. It makes no sense to me.
I know a guy who thinks taking it up in the ass is a sissy thing and wont let no girl touch him there... Motherf*ckin macho dickhead It just makes me WANT to finger his ass and prove him wrong!! I mean, don't men have a prostate gland specificaly for feeling pleasure up in the ass!?!?