Ive been broken up with my ex for about 2 months now and she got a bf within 2 weeks of our breakup which i sorta laugh at cause its the most lopsided relationship ive ever seen. But anyways shes been writing pretty mean things about me and just making me out to be a bad guy and it hurts alot. Because i did care for her alot and her doing that has just really brought things back up. I have no more feelings for her anymore but i did miss what we had. I guess she misinterpreted this and thought i still wasnt over her and had hopes of getting back with her that pissed her off.. Its wierd how do you deal with someone who goes out of thier way to tell other ppl mean things about you and then wont even give you the time of day to talk about it. Sounds fucked up to me.. But whatever i think alot of ppl are just realizing that shes been a bitch to me (for lack of a better word).
If I break up with someone and they run their mouth about me then my guess is they couldn't have thought very highly of me to begin with.. Don't worry about, seriously.. If everything she is saying is bs then there's no worries.. It'll pass.
I know what that feels like - definitely misrepresented and misinterpreted. But you know what the strange thing is, whatever helps them move on, right? I dated a younger guy once and I don't think he fully understood the magnitude of his words or actions. He is a good person at heart but extremely inconsiderate in petty, small ways which eventually cause one to question one's character. There were a few things he never did understand, obstinate... like a child. It may hurt, but you know in your heart, what you've done and what you've not done. Let time take its course. If anything, I was more irritated with myself for associating with someone like this, rather than at the person themself.
): I'm sorry it sounds like she's still hurt over the whole situation. give her and the situation some time to heal, we all heal in our own ways. sometimes one way just happens to be more respectful than the other. good luck and *hugs*
^^ exactly. the only real thing you can do is try and settle the score, or just not let it bother you, as you said, she is a dumb bitch. talking trash behind your back isn't just immature, its lame. its too bad that it had to work out like that. oh and for the record, spooner, why must you be such a jackass? hmm?
Just her way of making herself feel better by trying to bring you down. Dont feel bad, she seems like a looser.
I broke up with my b/f 4 months ago due to HIM cheating on me FIVE times! I got with a guy and he started this type of shit. He made my new guy unit feel extremely uncomfortable to the point that I think my x had something to do with him leaving me.I hate drama. I had to deal with it for so long. Just think of it this way; she will have bad karma on her part and it will all go away soon come. After the new boy in my life left, my x b/f stopped starting shit. Now I have no one and I feel like he won. bleh. whatever. I'm tired of guys at the moment.
