Hello everyone: I am currently in a relationship with a guy who is a cancer 7/17 and I am also a cancer 7/22. I really like this guy and enjoy spending time with him but there are some things that I just cannot figure out. Now we have been together for a few months now and things are going ok, the only thing is it's a bit harder than I thought let me explain; I thought since him and I are both cancers that it would be really easy to read him since we are supposed to have a lot of similarities, but boy was I wrong. The thing with him is it's really hard to figure him out, he is the type that just does not open up or tell me anything and most people say that it's really easy to talk to me and most feel they can open up and tell me things that they may not be able to tell anyone else, but not with him. I want to know more, I want him to open up to me and feel comfortable but I just don't know how to get him to that point. He is also nochalant about everything, it's like nothing phases him and I know sometimes I am like that because I don't want others to see my weak side, however people do end up seeing it no matter how much I try to conceal it. Do you think that's what he is doing? I am trying to be the kind of girl who gives him his space and not ask him anything I just wait for him to do and say things willingly. Being a cancer I know when in a relationship I need that security, I need to know that this person is here and is not going to hurt me. And I remember one day he told me it's going to take a lot to get his heart and for him to love someone. Now how can I get him to the point where he can open up to me and talk to me? I want to give him that sense of security and let him know I am not here to harm him. What are some things that I can to get this cancer man's heart? Please Help
If there is anyone that could help please advise, I can use all the advice and opinions I can get. Thanks!
In my experience, both life and from what I read, Cancer-Cancer does not work in youth and mid-life. Cancer needs appreciation, constant admiration, so both Cancers will want the same thing. One of you is bound to feel unfulfilled, misunderstood, unappreciated. Unfortunately, men usually give up first, and go where they are more 'appreciated' - Taurus might be one of those. Only in later (I mean senior citizen later) life, when egos have been placated, and both people know who and what they are, can Cancer-Cancer relationship work. Sorry
