This is an embaressing thing to admit but I've only just started having sex and I've found out that I come within 10 seconds after penetration. It makes me feel extremely embaressed and lousy but the thing is, I can get another erection within about 2-3 mins (or actually keep my erection, which I've done a couple of times) and carry on possibly for hours (I managed two hours for my first time, which I'm quite proud of!). My girlfriend says it's nothing to worry about but I was wondering what other people think, as it does make me feel quite down. Thanks!
Well hell if you can maintain afterwords then it IS nothing to worry about. Its us who have to stop for a while due to sensitivity that have soemthing to worry about
I can solve all your problems buddy... before you have sex, at like dinner or something, go to the bathroom, jerk off, wash your hands, go back to dinner, then later that night, give her the time of her life.
Thats why all the young girls want us older guys, we know what we are doing Try not to think about what you are doing while you are doing it maybe
Sea Monster has a point, I mean George Clooney is like what 60 now? and every year he gets sexiest man alive in some mag.
I don't see what the problem is. The guys women have a problem with are the ones that do not perform adequate foreplay, expect her to come from intercourse alone, & are done as soon as they come once. If you are willing to stimulate her while you recharge, then go at it as many times as it takes to get her off a few times, great. If you are willing to spend the time to get her off a few times with your fingers and/or tongue before having sex, great. Frankly, there are quite a few women who never actually reach orgasm thru vaginal intercourse, they need direct clitoral stimulation to get off, so you either have to get her off before having sex or stimulate her clit during sex. As long as you are both getting pleasure, both actually reaching orgasm, you're in good shape.
try smoking, ive never had sex but after i smoke and jerk off, i can go like.... 7-10 times and it takes forever each time.
Well, I think it's the extended foreplay that gets me so excited, which I why I do come so quick! But I find now that if she gets me off during foreplay, then sex could go for hours! I've heard most guys say that sensitivity stops other guys but althought I can maintain an erection, I actually go quite numb for a while (which I thought was an odd sorta thing) ... although I still get my pleasure from seeing her eyes roll back in her head!
I cum quick that first time too, but after that it takes so long, no girl has ever minded after i start up that second time, i always joke about, Just gotta get that first one out the way...
Hey dont worry, just keep doing it a lot, practice makes perfect, and keep that strong will to please her going, it seems like too few men care what the woman feels.
i personally like what you titled this thread. very creative. oh and dont worry about it, youll be fine man
