Seeing happy couples

I have no clue as to what is wrong with me. Every guy that I dig doesn't dig me. They say that I'm too good of a person to get with. What the fuck is up with that excuse? I've gotten it more than 2 times. The guys that I don't dig are all about me. I see happy couples cuddling and it actually makes me sad. Don't get me wrong, it's great that they are happy and all. I guess I've been feeling lonely a lot lately. I just need someone to cuddling with me and be there for me. I love my freedom of not being in a relationship, but i do need a hook up buddy or something along those lines. Sorry about ranting, but I just need to get this out.

 

Perhaps, you just have not located the guy for you yet, you know? I have no idea what the fuck is up with it and why exactly that they do it, but probably to them you are a sweet princess that only belongs to a prince, obviously they are only peasants.

 

lol i guess so...well oh well. the day will come. i just need to wait. i just have really bad luck with guys. They either cheat on me or don't want me. bleh.

 

Yeah I feel your pain sister. I havent even made contact with a girl for like 2 years, talk about terrible bad luck.

 

I hear you, chica ... and believe it or not, I've been in the same situation before ...

I think that the whole "you're too good for me" excuse is just a polite way of saying "sorry hun, I need someone who's more of a badass." I don't mean any offense by that -- I prefer the nice ladies myself. But it seems like most people need some kind of constant competition or something.

Anyhow -- I don't mean to come off sounding like an internet troll, but if you live near Philly, I'm going to be back home in Northampton (by Allentown) in a little over a month, if you want to chill or hook up around then. I can't (and won't) make any promises, as I'll only be around for 3 months and probably only be free on weekends (I work 2nd shift, around 9 hours a day), but if you're still feeling lonely then, let me know -- I won't lay a lame excuse on you like "you're too good." :H I'm an honest fella.

Either way, I'm presuming that's you in your signature -- whatever happens, you're a beautiful person, and even if it takes awhile, something will come around eventually. It always does. Balance & harmony to ya.

 

yes that's me in my signature, but i have dreadies now. I know where northampton is. I won't be around too much during the summer either.

 

yeah i guess its pretty tough to find the right someone out there... I've been dating this one girl for almost a month and my outlook has obviously changed, but if you want to look at a thread that I posted almost exactly like this one, go for it:

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=157258

 

Well could be what your looking at as far as guys go, could be just a slump, could be damn near anything, your trying to figure people out and poeple are odd ducks my friend!

 

;l

 

Um, you look like Katie Holmes, we can cuddle alright.

 

I went through the same thing after my last bad breakup. I was really lonely and resented all the happy couples around me. Finally I decided that there was more to life than having a boyfriend and I just started spending lots of time with my family, my close friends, and myself...Now I've been date-free for 4 months and I'm LOVING it. I can't figure out why I EVER wanted a man in my life! Things are so much easier without them in the picture.

Just spend some time being you, stop worrying about men, and you'll be much happier!

 

Hey Bumble, I've felt like that when I see happy couples for the past 20+ years, I hope you don't give up trying. I wish I had tried harder or at least not given up. Still thats just me I guess!

 

don't get me wrong,i love being on my own and all, but sometimes the nights can be cold, dark, and lonely. Peculiar Girl, yes you're right. I do need my time and spending it with family. It sucks because I want the best of the two worlds.

 

I most certainly understand how you feel.

Except I always get the line "We're just too good of friends" or "You intimidate me"

 

Lol, thats funny, I was thinking the same thing! She sure does look like her, doesnt she?

 

LOL that's funny. I never was told that i looked like her before.

 

I understand Bumble, I was in your place to-

You and I share a B-day by the way You are a really cute, too!

Those cold dark lonely nights suck and so did those happy couples. I know how bad that felt. When you are not looking for someone, that is usually when you find them. Plus, you are really young, you can keep your options open.

Stay positive and don't give up on love. I truly believe there is not just on person for everybody, there are many people would be lucky to have you. Maybe the time is not right now, but it will come.

 

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sorry, I can't type today

 

I've been on the receiving end of dating someone you reminded me of, Bumble.

I don't mean to rain on the sympathy parade here, but it was one hell of a ride and boy, was that man inconsiderate and selfish. He only thought of his own loneliness. In the end, true colours come true.

I'm wary when I hear about these things. Sincerely, I find very little to truly empathize with those who moan and groan about how they have no one to hold. For goodness sake, pull yourself together.